Barbara posted, "Any mother who goes on national tv ONE WEEK after the brutal murder of a child and says they want to get on with their lives......... That's enough for me to think she's involved!"
Barbara is totally mistaken. The Ramseys said no such thing. Cabell said it, in a PHRASE, but not in an isolated statement. Barbara (and others just like her) CHOOSE to make this interpretation.
CABELL: They said that they had to get over this five or six days of grieving and burying their daughter, now they want to get on with this new stage of their life, and that is: finding the killer. They wanted to get this off their chest, they want to get this in motion.
Here's what John said and what Erin Runnion said (for which she has NEVER been criticized):
RAMSEY: EarlyPrime, Aired January 1, 1997 - 4:34 p.m. ET
RUNNION: LKL, Aired July 25, 2002 (9 days after Samantha's murder)
RAMSEY, J: But the other -- the other reason is that -- for our grief to resolve itself we now have to find out why this happened.
KING: Don't you bang your fists and say why?
RUNNION:
I try, and every day is better. Every day is better.
KING: It is?
RUNNION: The busyness of all this. We had the quietness, the three days before they found him, but when we knew she was gone. We had those three days to grieve. And then once they found him, it was just an enormous relief.
RUNNION: That's all I could say was, why do they hurt them? Why do they -- you know, if you're sick, you're sick, but why do you have to hurt them, you know? To take your own illness out, to not realize how sick -- what a sickness it is and to hurt children, to realize that this is your problem, not a baby's. That these are human beings who have histories, that have personalities, that have potential that you can never imagine.
To take that away to feed your need, it's an unbelievable selfishness. It's unbelievable.
KING: A lot of people wonder looking at you where the anger is. Is there anger?
RUNNION: I have very little room for anger, very little room. It's all hurt. It's all sadness. And I don't -- I just...
KING: Do you look with hatred on the alleged perpetrator?
RUNNION: I don't. I don't look at him at all. I try not to look at him.
KING: And we were told that you don't even want to discuss what should happen to him.
RUNNION: Absolutely not.
KING: That's -- whatever the authorities want to do, you won't even give them input.
RUNNION: No, no. The district attorney has my complete faith and our judicial process is going to have to do better this time. And I think it will. I think it will.
KING: You didn't watch no television.
RUNNION: No.
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People like Barbara (if inclined to be as heartless, mean, and judgmental) would say that it only took Erin Runnion three days to get over the murder of Samantha (to grieve). But, they don't do that to anyone in the way they do that to the Ramseys. They CHOOSE to take the nasty, unkind, heartless route with them and wrap it all up with their lip service, claiming to 'care' about JonBenét and justice. As I've said before, I ain't buyin' that anymore. They don't "care" about anything but making their "point", no matter who is getting hurt along the way. JMO.