Found Safe WI - Audrey Good Backeberg, 20, Reedsburg, 7 July 1962

I don't understand what is going on here.
So she left her life 63 years ago (almost) and it really was, for at least 60 years it was clear for the investigators that she wasn't murdered but left and isn't interested in coming back, she wasn't hiding at all... but fairy recently her sister asked investigators to "TRACK HER DOWN"?! So she hasn't asked them to reopen the case, to investigate it again... just to track her down... sixty years later?
Then what's about all these articles? Did Audrey really agreed on sharing this story and her picture?

Abusive towards the children too? Affair with her mother? Dear God, Napoleon could fail to figure out how to navigate that situation. Leaving everything behind and blocking everything behind could just feel like the lesser evil.
If she'd had no contact with her biological family, there would have been no way for the sister to know that Audrey didn't want to be located. Most likely, the sister wanted the case resolved before she died herself, and knew that with all the resources available today, it could be.
 
If she'd had no contact with her biological family, there would have been no way for the sister to know that Audrey didn't want to be located. Most likely, the sister wanted the case resolved before she died herself, and knew that with all the resources available today, it could be.
Yeah, no way for the sister to know but it's not told from her sister's perspective in the articles, it's more like stating series of facts and (at least for me) it sounds like the person/people who were investigating her disappearance back then knew.

Last linked article says that Audrey "considered her case closed over 60 years ago".
Other article says "At one point in 1964, investigators determined Audrey left on her own free will and did not want to be found."

I'm not insinuating that her sister knew Audrey is somewhere out there, but waited over 60 years to ask police to locate Audrey now, cause suddenly she feels like it.

I'm insinuating that it sounds like "At one point in 1964, investigators determined Audrey left on her own free will and did not want to be found." but never passed that info to her family.
And that they did it only recently, cause her sister wished to know what happened to Audrey. And the threat that was or could be still there in 1964 is gone by now, or that cop who worked it now didn't even knew much about it (what sounds pretty likely).

But with that i see three possible explanations:
1. It doesnt mean anything, its just weirdly phrased and then, in the early 1960s investigators didnt do much, just figured that oh, no new leads, no body, lets assume she left by her own accord then.
2. It means that investigators did much then and concluded that Audrey left but somehow, maybe by accident, with some lost files, maybe with main investigator retiring or moving elsewhere they unfortunately ended up not passing that info to the family.
3. OR MAYBE the investigators confirmed that Audrey is safe elsewhere, wont be coming back but never told her family cause they figured that going public with thst knowledge will put Audrey back in danger she just ran from.

Third option sounds cruel but even apart from this case... what the hell are you supposed to do in that situation?
Someone ran away from their life cause they feared for their safety. You invesigated. So you know that they ran away and live elsewhere. You know that there are people missing that person, worrying sick that they may be dead. But you also know that threat is still there, or may be there and that giving the information to those who are so worried may also give that to the person who may go and try to locate that "missing" person to hurt her. What do you do? Do you stop at least some of the pain of those worried? Or you don't say anything to not risk that info may somehow lead to their fears coming true eventually?

What police is doing in such cases? When they have missing person's report, they have close ones looking, maybe they have the info that person is safe but dont want to be found. When there is no threat they know of, then surely they can just say locsted, safe, doesnt want to go back or get into any contact. But what if there is a stalker or abusive spouse who seems to believe that missing person is dead and proving that wrong may end up as call to action for them?
The missing person is the victim of that situation but those who miss them are victims too... so what? Youre supposed to just guess whats the least bad scenario? Cause even if they weren't very close that doesnt mean they dont suffer and wont suffer much more not knowing.

Sorry, Im overthinking a lot but thats.. thats a nightmare.
 
Abusive towards the children too? Affair with her mother?

Did the paywalled article say that? The first part, maybe. The second bit - that's crazy! So let's see.. her mother was 39 when Audrey went missing, Ron was 22. Really?

On Reddit there were comments (that were subsequently deleted by the poster) that mentioned detectives were still questioning Ron Backeberg up until he died about Audrey's disappearance, and how angry family members were that it was not known that Audrey was still alive, because of the suspicion Ron might've killed her after she disappeared, and for the rest of his life. If the information that she was alive and didn't "want to be found" was in her file, why wasn't it passed on?
 
Did the paywalled article say that? The first part, maybe. The second bit - that's crazy!
Yes. I can't provide the exact quote but yeah. There is also current picture of Audrey included, with "SAUK COUNTY SHERIFFS OFFICE" as a source. That shocked me. Is it normal thing?
On Reddit there were comments (that were subsequently deleted by the poster) that mentioned detectives were still questioning Ron Backeberg up until he died about Audrey's disappearance, and how angry family members were that it was not known that Audrey was still alive, because of the suspicion Ron might've killed her after she disappeared, and for the rest of his life.
The comments I saw about Audrey in other places were more hateful, cruel and rougher than I've ever seen in similar cases.
Ron must really suffer while questioned.
If that happened that's some supreme dedication for police work. For the rest of his life so 10, 20, 30, 40 years and they were still questioning him.
And it happened in decades when cops were still drowning in paperwork? Wow. I don't recall it happening in other cases.
If the information that she was alive and didn't "want to be found" was in her file, why wasn't it passed on?
Eithat that or the other question - why were they questioning him so hard while having babysitter testimony?
Unusual. Very unusual... unless they had super low crime rate or lots of funds and could find time to regularily question POIs and whitnesses from older crimes. Cause usually... how? Time is limited, with no new leads and even just suspicion of missing person being a runway investigators are forced to work newer cases with leads and (from lack of better phrasing) "more urgent cases" and cant do more than maybe checking out whats going on every couple years.

Unless...
Unless they were getting false tips and reports. But that's not something Audrey had anything to do with.
 
It’s horrible that her picture and chosen name has been released.
Its unusual as well. Especially if she doesnt want to get in touch with anyone. Who benefits from that? Surely she doesnt. Neither does her sister cause whats the point of learning that from the media? That part of her relatives who are so angry with her?
Was that cause of these couple bucks made of the paywall or to make it possible for people to harass her over something she did 63 years ago? Shameful.
 

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