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What, given this situation, is the most plausible: burning to death in a vehicle entirely accidentally, or suicide? Or is there a middle ground here - death by misadventure?
It's a descriptive term elsewhere, a legal term in parts of the UK.
You can use any terms you want, I suppose but when you literally use the word "accident" in your own definition of "misadventure" you can see how others might find it redundant.Accident: her car somehow malfunctioned and she died as a result.
Suicide: she intentionally killed herself.
Misadventure: she stopped for reasons unknown and ignited herself accidentally.
To be more clear then:You can use any terms you want, I suppose but when you literally use the word "accident" in your own definition of "misadventure" you can see how others might find it redundant.
In the UK it has a subtext of victim blaming i.e. "died as a result of knowingly dangerous activity" but it's a nebulous criteria. Either you intend to die or you don't.
That Wikipedia article I linked actually contains some references to claims and studies that suggest the standards used everywhere to classify and record causes of death are in need of serious revision and I have to agree. A particularly morbid sort of research scientist could probably make a name for themselves and contribute greatly to society.
While looking for information about a different case on the Wisconsin Circuit Court Access website earlier today, Kathleen popped into my head. So I decided to do a search on her and came across some information that I had never seen before.
To make sure this was who I thought it was, I read her obituary again (it was). I also saw that she had moved to Milwaukee only in 2015 and lived in Minnesota previously, so I decided to do the same on the Minnesota Public Access website, and came across even more information.
I am not going to discuss in detail what I've found because to me, it is heartbreaking and so tragic. And, clearly, Kathleen was much, much more than that. I am only mentioning it because it has really given me a new perspective on what might have happened to her.
Wisconsin Circuit Court Access: Wisconsin Circuit Court Access
Kathleen Ann Ryan obituary: View Kathleen Ryan's Obituary on fdlreporter.com and share memories
Minnesota Public Access: Minnesota Judicial Branch - AccessCaseRecords
Rest in peace. What an amazing, strong woman she was.
Excellent response. I agree with you about inmyhumbleopinion's work here too.Thank you so much for not giving up on Kathleen's case and going above and beyond to help provide big clues as to what might have happened and why nothing was making sense - LE's statements and subsequent silence, why no updates, why no evidence of foul play, etc, and eventually why the silence and acceptance for family. It's very possible that they knew things all along that we didn't.
As a recovered alcoholic, all the pieces started to fall into place with the information you found, at least for me. Out of respect for her family I won't go into many speculative details because I really don't know if her record had anything to do with what happened, but I will just say that I personally had one really bad incident in which I had every intention of going to a family event but of course, had to stop at the liquor store because, well, because I needed it. I drank quite a bit in the parking lot and then kept drinking from the open bottle with me in the car, and (horribly ashamed and guilty about this) drove about 30 minutes before getting completely disoriented and ending up in the middle of nowhere, lost. I finally found a parking lot at an abandoned strip mall and pulled in there to sleep it off. Anything really could have happened to me, or worst I could have hurt someone else.
I was firmly in the foul play camp, but now, I think suicide is possible, but that it is highly probable that a combination of circumstances, coincidences and mishaps led to her tragic death. My heart aches for her no matter what happened; there but for the grace of God go I.
Prayers for her friends and families. I am not sure they will ever feel closure over this no matter what.
Edited to add: @Boston Corbett - I too would use the term "death by misadventure" to describe what might have happened to Kathleen, regardless of what the legal definition of it is. I also heard it used in the bizarre Elisa Lam case (woman drowned in water tanks atop hotel roof) and think it definitely could apply here.
So glad that you are here with us. Thank you so much for sharing.Thank you so much for not giving up on Kathleen's case and going above and beyond to help provide big clues as to what might have happened and why nothing was making sense - LE's statements and subsequent silence, why no updates, why no evidence of foul play, etc, and eventually why the silence and acceptance for family. It's very possible that they knew things all along that we didn't.
As a recovered alcoholic, all the pieces started to fall into place with the information you found, at least for me. Out of respect for her family I won't go into many speculative details because I really don't know if her record had anything to do with what happened, but I will just say that I personally had one really bad incident in which I had every intention of going to a family event but of course, had to stop at the liquor store because, well, because I needed it. I drank quite a bit in the parking lot and then kept drinking from the open bottle with me in the car, and (horribly ashamed and guilty about this) drove about 30 minutes before getting completely disoriented and ending up in the middle of nowhere, lost. I finally found a parking lot at an abandoned strip mall and pulled in there to sleep it off. Anything really could have happened to me, or worst I could have hurt someone else.
I was firmly in the foul play camp, but now, I think suicide is possible, but that it is highly probable that a combination of circumstances, coincidences and mishaps led to her tragic death. My heart aches for her no matter what happened; there but for the grace of God go I.
Prayers for her friends and families. I am not sure they will ever feel closure over this no matter what.
Edited to add: @Boston Corbett - I too would use the term "death by misadventure" to describe what might have happened to Kathleen, regardless of what the legal definition of it is. I also heard it used in the bizarre Elisa Lam case (woman drowned in water tanks atop hotel roof) and think it definitely could apply here.
Your response highlights your good character. Thank you for sharing and providing insight. I am glad you are here with us. Stay safe and well.Thank you so much for not giving up on Kathleen's case and going above and beyond to help provide big clues as to what might have happened and why nothing was making sense - LE's statements and subsequent silence, why no updates, why no evidence of foul play, etc, and eventually why the silence and acceptance for family. It's very possible that they knew things all along that we didn't.
As a recovered alcoholic, all the pieces started to fall into place with the information you found, at least for me. Out of respect for her family I won't go into many speculative details because I really don't know if her record had anything to do with what happened, but I will just say that I personally had one really bad incident in which I had every intention of going to a family event but of course, had to stop at the liquor store because, well, because I needed it. I drank quite a bit in the parking lot and then kept drinking from the open bottle with me in the car, and (horribly ashamed and guilty about this) drove about 30 minutes before getting completely disoriented and ending up in the middle of nowhere, lost. I finally found a parking lot at an abandoned strip mall and pulled in there to sleep it off. Anything really could have happened to me, or worst I could have hurt someone else.
I was firmly in the foul play camp, but now, I think suicide is possible, but that it is highly probable that a combination of circumstances, coincidences and mishaps led to her tragic death. My heart aches for her no matter what happened; there but for the grace of God go I.
Prayers for her friends and families. I am not sure they will ever feel closure over this no matter what.
Edited to add: @Boston Corbett - I too would use the term "death by misadventure" to describe what might have happened to Kathleen, regardless of what the legal definition of it is. I also heard it used in the bizarre Elisa Lam case (woman drowned in water tanks atop hotel roof) and think it definitely could apply here.
Because it perhaps afforded a more comfortable accomodation than drinking in the driver's seat, if she had stopped there for that reason.If it was a "misadventure", WHY would she be in the passenger seat?!
Shamelessly quoting myself....Don't know if anyone has researched cars catching fire, but it could be another angle ...
2009 Pontiac G6 Fire Due To Power Steering Fluid Leak | CarComplaints.com
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(Find on page with 'fire', many instances)
I just watched the episode. I’m so glad you mentioned it on here.I'm watching an episode of Dr G right now and totally made me think of Kathleen. This guy was intoxicated, turned on the AC in his car and decided he was too drunk to drive, so he left the car running, got into the passenger side to sleep it off and the car started on fire killing him. I know the incident with Kathleen happened in February, why would she have the AC on? Well, I get really bad hot flashes and anxiety and have to put the AC on in the car when I'm not feeling well. Not saying she was intoxicated but maybe something like this happened to her? Or maybe she just wasn't feeling good, pulled over the car with it and the heater running, passes out and the car started on fire? Could a heater start a fire? I've never thought that she committed suicide, all MOO.
If it was a "misadventure", WHY would she be in the passenger seat?!
So while looking for the Dr. G. episode, I came across the following. Something I had never even considered before:Because it perhaps afforded a more comfortable accomodation than drinking in the driver's seat, if she had stopped there for that reason.
(snip)Take Extra Precautions for the Best Chance at Avoiding a DUI
For example, don't sleep in the driver's seat; instead, move to the back seats or at least the passenger seat.