WI WI - Kelly Dwyer, 27, Milwaukee, 11 Oct 2013 - #1

[bwt42]

He turned 39 last month. He worked for the Air Charter Guide in Cambridge and then Cor Financial in Boston. If you google it, you can verify. I had more direct knowledge however. I have no reason to lie to a group of strangers.

I, for one, have been glad to have someone that knows KZ post on this thread. Thanks for your participation. Your first posts seemed to be very supportive of KZ & that is understandable. As the drug & CP charges were made I sensed a change in your support. Now you may just be setting the record straight & not necessarily defending him. At this point, if you can, do have an opinion on his involvement in her disappearance,

 

[mke2013]

I, for one, have been glad to have someone that knows KZ post on this thread. Thanks for your participation. Your first posts seemed to be very supportive of KZ & that is understandable. As the drug & CP charges were made I sensed a change in your support. Now you may just be setting the record straight & not necessarily defending him. At this point, if you can, do have an opinion on his involvement in her disappearance,

Thank you. I prefer not to comment directly but I will say I have mixed feelings.

 

[Woe.be.gone]

He turned 39 last month. He worked for the Air Charter Guide in Cambridge and then Cor Financial in Boston. If you google it, you can verify. I had more direct knowledge however. I have no reason to lie to a group of strangers.

Thanks for answering my question. Please know I didn't suggest you were lying. On WS, it's common practice to ask for links when anybody makes a concrete statement about anything.
Someone else posted an opinion about KZ's work ethic and history. One can't easily prove an opinion. You replied with a general statement claiming the work history is untrue but didn't provide any verifiable details. Upon request, you gave two company names of KZ's previous employment.

On the other side of the coin, should anyone have reason to believe a stranger over the Internet in regard to their honesty? You know you don't lie but do you know I don't lie? Asking for proof isn't meant as a personal insult.

Until people associated with a suspect cross over the line by minimizing, covering up or protecting him or her (if you're doing this, please explain why), I continue to understand how difficult it must be to come to grips with the situation that's coming to light.
Also would like to encourage people affected by KZ's actions to work through any denial and to refrain from making excuses for the situation that is seriously hurting other people who want to know what's happened to their daughter. Try to imagine their pain.

The case is still open. We know KZ was the last person with Kelly when she was last seen alive. The warrants strongely suggest KZ holds the key to the answers of Kelly's disappearance.

 

[Woe.be.gone]

He works for TRC Global Solutions. I think you were reading about a different company called TRC. His company deals with relocations.

The link I posted is a general description of CIO positions, how the position is evolving due to the advancement of technology but, at the same time, how interfacing with people is a desired strength, along with a bunch of other info I'd need three hours to decipher because I learn better through stories or examples. There aren't any specific companies mentioned.

My point is that the CIO description doesn't sound as if the person would or should be off in their own pigeon-hole isolated from the daily going ons within the company.

Having said all that, I believe I posted that his company arranges to move stuff (a less fancy way of saying relocation).

 

[angelainwi]

bumping, sad to see this on page 5

 

[Snoods]

Thank you, angelainwi. Kelly is one of the few cases I think about every single day. I wish that murdering baztard would grow a pair of nads and tell Kelly's parents where she is.

 

[angelainwi]

and bumping again

 

[FiveFelines]

This is crazy. I was Googling something else for another case on WS tonight and came across some news articles about this. Upon seeing his photo, I realized I went to high school with KZ. We were not friends and I have no real insider info, but it was a very small school and we were in social circles that sometimes hung out together. Very strange and sad to stumble across this. I hadn't heard about it until now.

 

[SmoothOperator]

WoW FiveFelines I bet its a shocker to learn someone you knew in highschool was involved in such horrors as what we've sadly come to learn of KZ.. I'm not sure how much you are interested to know but the child affidavits really leave no question that he is not at all "OK", to say the least..

Thanks for posting.. What type of person was he in highschool?.. If you'd care to share, if not I completely understand..

 

[FiveFelines]

WoW FiveFelines I bet its a shocker to learn someone you knew in highschool was involved in such horrors as what we've sadly come to learn of KZ.. I'm not sure how much you are interested to know but the child affidavits really leave no question that he is not at all "OK", to say the least..

Thanks for posting.. What type of person was he in highschool?.. If you'd care to share, if not I completely understand..

Yes, I saw that during my Google search. It's horrible.

I really didn't know him well enough to say, especially since that was 20+ years ago. Just the usual high school stuff, rumors he cheated on his girlfriend. But overall, I think he was well-liked. He wasn't a nerd, or a jock, or a drama geek. Just a "regular" guy. I have friends who were much closer to him then; just reached out to some of them to see if they had heard about this.

 

[Snoods]

Yes, I saw that during my Google search. It's horrible.

I really didn't know him well enough to say, especially since that was 20+ years ago. Just the usual high school stuff, rumors he cheated on his girlfriend. But overall, I think he was well-liked. He wasn't a nerd, or a jock, or a drama geek. Just a "regular" guy. I have friends who were much closer to him then; just reached out to some of them to see if they had heard about this.

Holy smokes, it has to be absolutely mind blowing to realize you went to school with this guy. I'd love to hear any other information you feel comfortable sharing about him from your friends.

If there's one thing I've learned here on WS it's that the boy next door can just as easily be the murdering/pedophile next door.

Jeez, listen to me, what a debbie downer. Have a great day! If ya don't get murdered! :floorlaugh:

 

[Snoods]

Thanks for answering my question. Please know I didn't suggest you were lying. On WS, it's common practice to ask for links when anybody makes a concrete statement about anything.
Someone else posted an opinion about KZ's work ethic and history. One can't easily prove an opinion. You replied with a general statement claiming the work history is untrue but didn't provide any verifiable details. Upon request, you gave two company names of KZ's previous employment.

On the other side of the coin, should anyone have reason to believe a stranger over the Internet in regard to their honesty? You know you don't lie but do you know I don't lie? Asking for proof isn't meant as a personal insult.

Until people associated with a suspect cross over the line by minimizing, covering up or protecting him or her (if you're doing this, please explain why), I continue to understand how difficult it must be to come to grips with the situation that's coming to light.
Also would like to encourage people affected by KZ's actions to work through any denial and to refrain from making excuses for the situation that is seriously hurting other people who want to know what's happened to their daughter. Try to imagine their pain.

The case is still open. We know KZ was the last person with Kelly when she was last seen alive. The warrants strongely suggest KZ holds the key to the answers of Kelly's disappearance.

Very well said, woe.be.gone. and BBM this. Please quit making excuses for KZ, he can't be helped any more. He doesn't deserve your help. It seems being a friend of KZ may find you wrapped up dead in a shower curtain never to be seen again. Umm Please remove my name from that f'd up friend's list! Kelly's parent's are the only people that deserve your help. Put yourself in their shoes, dear God. Have a shred of decency. Rant over.

 

[FiveFelines]

All of the friends I spoke with were shocked, but some reminded me that they thought he was a little off back then. He threatened a good friend of mine after he caught him cheating on his gf (I'd totally forgotten about that), for example. Nothing to predict this.

I will say that no one I contacted had heard about it. It doesn't seem to be in the news here at all (Massachusetts and Connecticut).

 

[Snoods]

All of the friends I spoke with were shocked, but some reminded me that they thought he was a little off back then. He threatened a good friend of mine after he caught him cheating on his gf (I'd totally forgotten about that), for example. Nothing to predict this.

I will say that no one I contacted had heard about it. It doesn't seem to be in the news here at all (Massachusetts and Connecticut).

No kidding? No one had heard of it? I'm stunned.This is a pretty gruesome little case.

So he was the patron saint of non cheaters back then, eh? Maybe he doth protest to much. Or maybe he didn't consider himself a cheater if it was with a toddler.

Thanks so much foryour information, we'd love for you to stick around. This is going to trial in April, and in the meantime we'd all love to find Kelly'a body. He took off on an hours long drive when he disposed of her body. You don't have any places you remember that he liked to frequent, maybe off the beaten path? Any tips would help. Call the tip line if the think you may know something.

 

[FiveFelines]

No kidding? No one had heard of it? I'm stunned.This is a pretty gruesome little case.

So he was the patron saint of non cheaters back then, eh? Maybe he doth protest to much. Or maybe he didn't consider himself a cheater if it was with a toddler.

Thanks so much foryour information, we'd love for you to stick around. This is going to trial in April, and in the meantime we'd all love to find Kelly'a body. He took off on an hours long drive when he disposed of her body. You don't have any places you remember that he liked to frequent, maybe off the beaten path? Any tips would help. Call the tip line if the think you may know something.

No one had heard of it because it doesn't seem to be in the news back here. We grew up and went to school in small town Connecticut, and it looks like he and his family all moved away some time ago. He was in Boston after that and before Wisconsin. So as for places he like to frequent back then, they wouldn't be in WI, but I can ask around.

My graduating class was very small and now everyone's talking about this. So maybe that will help in some way. Some friends are saying how they can't believe this and how he was so nice, but others say there was always something sketchy about him. One person called him a narcissist, which sounds spot on in light of this case.

I'll definitely be following this case now. I'm almost always on WS, usually over on the Unidentified boards.

 

[ontheclock]

Bumping for Kelly. She's on page 3. I'm surprised her thread has been so quiet lately. I'll take that as a good sign because I'd hate to think nothing's being done.

 

[IHAVENOCLUE]

Holy smokes, it has to be absolutely mind blowing to realize you went to school with this guy. I'd love to hear any other information you feel comfortable sharing about him from your friends.

If there's one thing I've learned here on WS it's that the boy next door can just as easily be the murdering/pedophile next door.

Jeez, listen to me, what a debbie downer. Have a great day! If ya don't get murdered! :floorlaugh:

:silly: Snoods says: "Jeez, listen to me... What a debbie downer. Have a great day! If ya don't get murdered!" :silly:

 

[IHAVENOCLUE]

This is crazy. I was Googling something else for another case on WS tonight and came across some news articles about this. Upon seeing his photo, I realized I went to high school with KZ. We were not friends and I have no real insider info, but it was a very small school and we were in social circles that sometimes hung out together. Very strange and sad to stumble across this. I hadn't heard about it until now.

:welcome: to this thread, FiveFelines!

It must be incredibly shocking to find that a former school mate is involved in such a gruesome case!

Thank you for filling us in on any characteristics and/or places of interest of KZ that could shed some light on where he hid Kelly's body...

:seeya:

 

[FiveFelines]

:welcome: to this thread, FiveFelines!

It must be incredibly shocking to find that a former school mate is involved in such a gruesome case!

Thank you for filling us in on any characteristics and/or places of interest of KZ that could shed some light on where he hid Kelly's body...

:seeya:

Thanks. Yeah, it's bizarre, especially since my graduating class was very small. The consensus among classmates seems to be overwhelmingly that he was sketchy, a liar, thought he was smarter than everyone else, sneaky, and a narcissist. Not that anyone would have predicted this, but many were not too surprised. In addition to Kelly and her family, I feel bad for his high school girlfriend. That's a horrible thing to discover about someone you once loved.

 

[IHAVENOCLUE]

Thanks. Yeah, it's bizarre, especially since my graduating class was very small. The consensus among classmates seems to be overwhelmingly that he was sketchy, a liar, thought he was smarter than everyone else, sneaky, and a narcissist. Not that anyone would have predicted this, but many were not too surprised. In addition to Kelly and her family, I feel bad for his high school girlfriend. That's a horrible thing to discover about someone you once loved.

So it sounds like KZ did not make a very positive impression on his school mates...

But... Of course... No one could have predicted this outcome...

His high school girlfriend is probably quite dismayed by these developments in KZ's life...

But... On the other hand... I hope she eventually feels relieved and blessed that she is one that "got away"...

JMO