When Ryan Borgwardt, 45, got an email from Wisconsin Chief Deputy Scheriff Vande Kolk, he was convinced to leave his mystery foreign mistress, but Kolk has concerns about her wellbeing.
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But now the case has taken yet another shocking turn, with the Sheriff's department expressing fears for the wellbeing of Borgwardt's foreign mistress - whose photo helped put officials in contact with the father-of-three.
Chief Deputy Sheriff Matthew Vande Kolk told DailyMail.com that his department could offer no help to the Uzbek woman whose identity has not been revealed.
'Because we are unable to provide any service to her whatsoever, I am concerned for her wellbeing,' he said.
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So I am questioning some parallels with RB's flame.
They probably also met on some dating site. I would not be surprized if she, too, is a religious minority within a Sunni majority and maybe complained. Now, Uzbekistan is religiously very tolerant, but maybe inside it feels different. (They forbid Christian proselytizing.) I think a religious person like RB would fall for a story of "we want to build a new church, but need to bribe lots of officials and hence, money is needed." This is when he'd transfer the money, I think. JMO.
That the woman is trying to emigrate from Uzbekistan is very likely. That she probably has some true cause to support, would not surprise me. That she probably expected him to transfer some money for that "cause", highly likely. That she didn't expect him to come and maybe (Christian) Georgia became a third country to meet in, is unsurprising.
So I wonder if it is some "soft" scam, maybe unrelated to any mafia but related to "a religious minority", and that is precisely what RB would fall for. I'd place her into her early to mid-30es, educated, but with "a damsel in distress" story. I think that parts of her story are true, but she's overusing them, you know?
Now him coming there was his idea and probably, it ruined a lot of her plans.
Ultimately, a naive guy who ruined a good marriage and probably the relationship with his kids. I think he lied a lot and tried to pull a scam, but his naivete was used, too, and hence for the LE it looks like a good reason to feel sorry for him.
All JMO. He is religious, I think this angle of his personality could be manipulated, though.