I feel safe quoting South because I know she is a poster that doesnt mind when others disagree. We could use about 50 more people with that mind set and have some great discussions!:dance:
South, you said that "Bashing is often part of debate because people find some modes of worship evil, dangerous, illegal and/or insane and they can't help but speak out against that"
If people find a religion insane or evil or any of the other things you mentioned above, they SHOULD speak out. Most definitely! I am just thinking that can be done w/o bashing. Bashing is when the emotion kicks in. Things become ALL bad or ALL good. There is nothing left to generate conversation with at that point.
I have seen some amazing conversations take place here at WS on incredibly difficult topics with strongly held opinions and no bashing. Those are the posters I am most impressed with. And that most especially includes the ones who are on the opposite side of the argument from me.
But I think that I am being idealistic, whereas South is being realistic.
I feel safe quoting South because I know she is a poster that doesnt mind when others disagree. We could use about 50 more people with that mind set and have some great discussions!:dance:
South, you said that "Bashing is often part of debate because people find some modes of worship evil, dangerous, illegal and/or insane and they can't help but speak out against that"
If people find a religion insane or evil or any of the other things you mentioned above, they SHOULD speak out. Most definitely! I am just thinking that can be done w/o bashing. Bashing is when the emotion kicks in. Things become ALL bad or ALL good. There is nothing left to generate conversation with at that point.
I have seen some amazing conversations take place here at WS on incredibly difficult topics with strongly held opinions and no bashing. Those are the posters I am most impressed with. And that most especially includes the ones who are on the opposite side of the argument from me.
But I think that I am being idealistic, whereas South is being realistic.
Then do what you came here to do!!!!!
As long as they've not harming people, stealing or engaging in other illegal practices then they should be given the respect or disrespect depending on your stance that any other religious group gets.
Clearly, I'm no fan of Scientology and I wish it never touched my familys life but I have always attempted to discuss not only the negative changes in my brother since he joined but some positive changes in him as well. Granted, there are far more negative changes but I'm not about to begrudge the positives!
Like many things in life, Scientology isn't simply black or white.. there are many, many shades of gray involved. I'm not gonna get into all the Scientology stuff again though.. every time a Scientology thread is made I feel like a broken record LOL.
Nice post Adnoid - I admit that I often find myself in a place where I can not intellectually refute something "on the spur of the moment." I have to go away and figure out "why" I feel the way I do about something. I am going to memorize your words about mentally substituting "I cannot intellecutally refute" whatever it is I'm hating at the moment and keep quiet until I can "intellectually refute" it.
Some things become very "emotional," especially religion and it is hard to work from an intellectual mind frame.
I think there can be good in most religions, along with bad. Maybe we should take all the good and start the "good" religion. Never work though, because what some would think was good, others would think was bad. Its that uniqueness in all of us that helps to frame our "spiritual aura."
Salem
I think there can be good in most religions, along with bad. Maybe we should take all the good and start the "good" religion. Never work though, because what some would think was good, others would think was bad. Its that uniqueness in all of us that helps to frame our "spiritual aura."
Salem
I'm not so sure you can intellectually refute a belief. Faith is within a person's heart and soul. It's personal. I do not believe debating the Bible or any other Holy Book. Because they are written not as fixed words, but as lessons. I do not mean to take away their importance, but I see them as a guide. Not as written words that should be taken verbatim.
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