Duplicate of poignant memories above. RIP Trey - you were very loved.
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thought I posted this twice so adding it back.
I read where his sister "BR" wanted to share these poignant thoughts about "Trey":
"September is Suicide Prevention Awareness Month. I wanted to shed some light on how the recent loss of my brother, Trey Reed, has impacted those I love and myself. I never thought that my brother would become one of the many unfortunate faces of suicide. By sharing our story, I am hopeful that everyone can see the true pain my family is feeling so that no one else has to experience the nightmare that my family is living.
First of all, my family and I have received an outpouring of love and support. I wanted to say thank you to all of you who reached out, sent food, shared memories, and especially those who sent pictures and videos of Trey laughing. It is incredibly bittersweet and healing to see him filled with joy in the hands of great company. He had a perfect smile and we never want to forget his laugh.
Based on what I’ve been told by many and have always believed to be true, I can confidently say there was no one like Trey. Maybe that’s why he felt he had to leave this world—it just wasn’t made for someone as kind, sensitive, and empathetic as him. If his personality wasn’t unique, at least his wardrobe and “two toenail toe” were.
Trey was an extraordinary brother, son, boyfriend, grandson, nephew, cousin, dog / cat dad, friend, and person. He was so funny. He could make anyone laugh, his punch lines were impeccable, and he always knew how to make me the butt of a joke. He was a connoisseur of dank memes. He had the best



tattoo, and I apologize to anyone who was forced to see his butt as a result. He was incredibly kind. He never spoke negatively of anyone. I’ve had several of his peers reach out to say that he noticed and included them when no one else did. He was brilliant, stubborn, and persuasive. When he was right, he was right, even if he was wrong (but he was rarely ever wrong). He was highly emotional and wasn’t ashamed to cry over how much he loved his animals or the sadness he felt following the passing of Nancy Reagan. He deeply loved everyone, everything, and all Nashville professional sports teams. He especially loved his dog, Jenny; his girlfriend of 5 years, Alex Webb; and our baby brother, Alex Reed. He wanted to save every kitten and help every person. I always love to tell the story of how he trapped his cat, Boris. He was reliable and always showed up for his family. We could count on him to run any errand, cook a favorite meal, watch our animals, help me move a seemingly immovable treadmill, or just be there because my parents wanted their three kids together.
Even in his darkest days, when he was struggling to hide his depression from everyone, he still served as a bright light to all who knew him. Typing this is making me realize that he must have been trying to protect everyone he loved from feeling the same kind of pain he did—how exhausting that must have been. If this tragedy has taught me anything, it’s that Trey’s love reached so many people during his brief 24 years. We are so thankful for every memory and moment he gifted us.
Many have asked how we are and what they can do for my family. Quite frankly, we are not okay. We are consumed by grief and confusion. This is something we will have to carry forever and nothing could possibly help that. We have each other though, and that’s all we need.
What I will ask of you is this:
Give extra love and hugs to your babies, siblings, parents, family, friends, animals, and partners. Tell them how much they mean to you. Take as many pictures and videos as you can. Contact the people you haven’t heard from in a while and ask if they’re okay. Speak positively to yourself. Educate yourself on mental illness and suicide. Pursue therapy if you need it, and maybe even if you don’t. Get the mental health treatment that you need. Reach out for help. Contact me if you need to talk. And most importantly, know that you are loved, cherished, and irreplaceable.
The suicide hotline number is 988. Please please please call or text them if you are in a dark place or feeling hopeless".