This may be another slightly long post, but 1) I’m in this for the long run, for Josh and 2) what I'm about to say (in my head) really explains why the poker party is where we need to focus. Not the lakes, not the abbey, the poker party. Here goes.
@cenazoic - A genuine thank you for critiquing my theory - that's exactly what I was hoping for from this forum. In order for it to be a credible theory, it needs to stand up to scrutiny. In my opinion, it does - exceptionally well. Let me explain.
For 21 years since Josh’s disappearance, we’ve covered abbey theories, snapping turtle theories, drowning theories etc etc. Look where that has got us. Absolutely nowhere. The drug angle just simply hasn’t been explored in much/any detail and I think it’s absolutely critical we do explore it.
We have got absolutely no choice but to make *some* leaps of faith, think outside of the box and connect the dots. Why? Because we simply don't have all the information that LE likely have, and we certainly don't know the entire story...yet - that said, the leaps of faith we do make need to be grounded in some form of evidence or reality.
Before I really get going, take a look at the following page:
FindJoshua.com - Message Board Archive
During my reading on FindJoshua - I read 100+ pages of messages which are all over the archived message board on there. Josh's dad and others were discussing "hallucinogenics" that may have been involved. Others thought Josh may have been a drug's "mule" (that is, someone who is transporting/distributing drugs) (Source: FindJoshua Message Board).
And now, most interestingly, take a look at my attached screenshot where a lady discusses the culture of silence regarding drugs on campus. For reasons I mention in my theory, there is absolutely a culture of silence regarding drugs whether it's weed or LSD etc.
So now, back to my theory.
Sightings - I read your comment again and regarding those “sightings”... I just don’t believe them. They seem off - especially the sighting that says “someone who knew Josh well” - they knew Josh so well they didn’t say hi or stop him??? I’ve been stopped and spoken to by people I barely know to say hi and chat - we’re expected to believe someone who knew Josh so well didn’t stop and have a conversation? On a university campus when no one else is around, but they didn’t stop someone they know so well, nor even say hi or have a conversation??? I doubt that very, very much. Who is this person? Why were they out? Did they happen to be from the poker party? Were they ever investigated? Look at the Madeleine McCann case in the UK - there were more sightings than Josh - every last one of them wasn’t her / and / or was a hoax. The FindJoshua website says Josh was in Amsterdam, Montreal 2x,. Josh was in Vegas etc. Sightings can be made up nonsense and hoaxes by sick individuals or people who thought they had info. Of course, some sightings can be real, but in this case, I’m not buying it.
For me, it boils down to this:
We can account for Josh the entire day with corroborated evidential facts. We know Josh was in his dorm searching for movies, working on his paper etc - timestamps on his computer told us so. We see Josh's movement - swiping back into his dorm, meeting for brunch with Nick etc. All of that is fully accounted for. Where do things start getting very, very sketchy? The poker party.
Very, very little info is known about the poker party, aside from there being underage, illegal drinking going on (not judging, just stating fact). Then we’ve got some very odd statements regarding Josh leaving. The statements are as follows (not exact quotes):
- Josh headed towards the bathroom
- Josh headed towards the front door (to exit) / bathroom
- A male got up and left, not sure if it was Josh (Investigator. Struffert)
- Sometime before midnight, people start realising Josh isn’t there (Investigator. Stuffert)
No one categorically saw Josh leave the room. No one has said: “I saw Josh leave and exit out of the front door”. In my opinion, we don’t know if Josh ever made it out of the front door. Sure, the “witness” statements make claims, but none of them seem valid, especially the person who “knew Josh well” - yet didn’t talk, say hi, have a chat etc Bizarre.
I stand by my theory and think it holds up to your scrutiny. When people started realising Josh wasn’t there, I don’t think it’s a big leap of faith to say that someone, say Nate (as it’s his party) went to the bathroom. It would explain Nate’s strange commnet:
Nate Slinkard, the host of the gathering, would recall to the Minneapolis Star-Tribune the seemingly insignificant moment around midnight when Josh got up. “I was standing there looking right at him,” Slinkard said.
What Nate Slinkard said in the quote above, was different than what we were told on Netflix.
I think what Dana said is absolutely critical. Dana said: “I can’t remember any time that he [Josh] had done that previously where he would have just left without saying goodbye”. And again - Katie agreed that this was NOT like Josh, and not something Josh did.
Then you factor in, approx 3 days after this event where Josh has just gone missing - Adam McDonald wipes the computer. Come on… I don’t want to jump to assumptions but: guy goes missing (possibly drug related overdose) and friend wipes the computer, declines an interview and then 16 months after Josh’s disappearance, Jude says to Brian: “I thought we erased all that information” (Source:
DocumentCloud)
It just so happens, Alex also went to the poker party! It doesn’t take a genius to see what’s going on here.
Katie calls around the following day and they say: Josh was fine! He was his normal self! - Dana disagrees - Josh wasn’t his normal self if he didn’t say bye before leaving.
Everything appears to go wrong/haywire at/after that poker party. I truly believe Josh’s mom is right: the people at the poker know more than they’re letting on.