CrimeDawg123
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Well said.MOO. AA and Nadia are on the run and cannot speak for themselves. Even given that, they each come across as passive observers in their own lives.
Both sets of parents’ various statements are centered on AA and Nadia future dreams (national guard / law school) without compelling evidence that either were actively pursuing said dreams. Which of course is why we’re questioning what their dreams really are.
The mothering manifesto by AA’s parents is more about allegedly awful mothering than about AA’s wonderful fathering. AA’s text messages are passive. AA’s parents’ statements about Nadia’s wonderful bond with Seraya are in context of Nadia-Seraya interactions in the presence of AA’s parents.
The various notes by AA’s parents are like doctor’s “sick notes” written for a 12-year-old to excuse school absences.
They allegedly absconded in AA’s parents’ car. Not in another vehicle. At least as far as we know.
Nadia waits until departure time to depart without saying farewell.
Their relationship comes across as like a middle school romance overly managed by AA’s meddling parents. Nadia’s parents perhaps trying to “cool off” a romance with a three-week vacation to Italy also seems like a move concerned parents would make to derail a tween romance vs an adult engagement.
This arrested development leads me to doubt AA and Nadia’s collective day-to-day abilities to manage their own lives even without a two-year-old in tow. On the plus side, AA’s parents likely understand this, hence the barrage of excuse notes for AA. Wherever AA and Nadia are, AA’s parents are fools if they did not arrange for nanny support, since custody (legal or illegal) of Seraya seems to one end game goal.
I hope little Seraya is found soon because she is not in capable adult hands with AA and Nadia, IMO.
edited by me for grammar
And "mothering manifesto" had me LOL'ing hard. So perfect!