A little feedback on the "John deserved a better girlfriend" tweet posted earlier from the reporter.
I know that JOK is a victim and he deserves better than all of this. And from all accounts a great man and a great father to those kids, who stepped up when needed. But that doesn't mean that JOK was a great boyfriend. And in being as respectful as possible considering the circumstances, I present you this:
She helped out with the kids a LOT. She didn't live there and not sure if that was her wish or his, but I would be willing to bet they didn't have a lot of time at her home. She likely made the trip to his home to spend time with his family and his friends. And while he had his own life challenges, she had her own. She had a demanding career amidst a very difficult health battle she was dealing with while supporting JOK and his kids.
As far as her jealousy issues, were they valid? Was he a flirt? Why wasn't there a bigger commitment after 2 years of dating, particularly at their age. Did she want more, i.e. living together, marriage, their own kids? As far as the kids go, they saw them arguing and naturally take John's side. But they did argue about her spoiling the kids.
So the anguish and anger in her voice sounds to me like someone who has put up with a lot of stuff from him and felt he was pulling away and taking advantage of her. JMO