paperwing
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This is hard to describe and dont get me wrong because I agree that any form of abuse is not acceptable. Not even 1, but
The thing that is crazy to me is even if we assume that Travis did what Jodi said as far as the physical abuse, it seems like it wasnt enough for her to claim that she honestly felt her life was threatened.
If I remember what she said, I think she said he
-grabbed my arm once
-tackled me once
-he banged his own head on the wall in other room
So even if these things are true, then how in the world could she honestly feel her life was threatened while he was in the shower and she dropped camera?
It just makes no sense to me at all.
I guess I am basing this on real cases of when woman have really been abused, there usually is much more history of the abuse and not just 1 time.
Her story just wreaks of lying because of this to me.
Please dont get me wrong because I definitely agree that no amount of abuse is forgiven and if a guy or girl is hit by their SO then they should leave them and file a police report and get them arrested.
Its just that her story doesnt sound credible with the 1 or 2 times she says she was hurt by him physically. Here again, I think maybe the incidents were actually either rough sex play or just horsing around and she got accidentally hurt. And now she brings these honest incidents up and twists them around.
I absolutely get your point. Just to play devil's advocate for a second, suppose Travis did bang his head, grab her arm, tackled her.
She lived 100s of miles away from him, and was not in an abusive relationship.
If he did those things (he didn't) - they're wrong and no excuses should be made for them. They do not add up to making someone fear for their lives AND get near that person - when they're miles away and have no meaningful link anymore. You still can't butcher someone because he's a creep.
I don't believe Travis did any of these things either. Might he have insulted JA? Sure. Might he have gotten angry? I would have! Her story is not just false, it's cruel.
jmv.