The Eunice Burns
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Are you serious that you think Cindy was just "acting" and wasn't that distraught? No, I think she was genuinely that upset. It was outrage, I agree, but I don't think it was fake. Somebody was putting on a big show there, but I don't think it was Cindy. It really is her grandchild who was missing.
I think she was totally exhausted and worried beyond belief and horrified. If I were Cindy A I would have had to be heavily medicated to get through those days. Seriously, just to get through each day. Imagine, you're terrified about your missing family member, your little grandchild, worried about her day and night, praying and hoping for her safe return, your mind completely frazzled trying to think where she could be and having to just wait and hope, over and over, with each tip to police that this is going to be the one, hoping beyond hope that she is alive for heavens sake, and then some people take it upon themselves to hold an event that's a public memorial basically, it's about her being dead, not alive. They invite the media, all the while slapping each other on the back and commenting in the media about how you should be acting more like them, how you should be feeling, what your obligations are to them, and how you should be participating in their memorial or some such craziness, and all kinds of insults about your family. And this has been going on for weeks basically, throughout this whole time you've been going out of your mind worrying and hoping and not being able to sleep and everything.
Cindy's loved ones should have prevented her from going there, though, for sure. She should never have engaged them at all. The same with the nuts demonstrating on her front lawn.
(If Padilla and others wanted to gather the searchers and everyone together for a sort of farewell before they all had to leave, after having worked together and bonded together while searching for Caylee, which is very understandable, or a vigil for Caylee, it should have been just that, but not a memorial. There was no need for it to be a confrontation toward her family or a media event. Cindy had asked him not to hold a memorial or media event like that, why would he do it anyway? It boggles the mind. I think some people had gotten a bit carried away due to the intense searching and were forgetting how much worse it was for Caylee's loved ones. I really like L Padilla actually, but even I thought it was a shame. I think in that moment Cindy probably would have turned to any person there who was kind to her at all, Rob or anybody. MOO)
Respectfully seagull, I am serious. I think it was fake/acting. I agree w/ you that there was a big show being put on out there. I think LP provided her/the As w/ a great opportunity to make another display for the media and the public. BBM---I don't think she thought Caylee was "missing". She knew long, long before that day that Caylee was dead. So, IMO, she was reacting to others acknowledging that w/ a memorial for a dead Caylee. She was angry that the "sightings" were obviously bogus and that everyone knew it. And we do agree on something, perhaps a farewell gathering to commemorate all the hard work and effort put in by Tim and TES, LE, etc. would have been more of a fitting way to handle it. (I still think LP is a puzzle, a mixed bag....) And ultimately, she chose to go there and confront him. She chose to behave that way. If this woman had steered the right course from the very start (and I mean the very start) she would have handled herself and her emotions in a way that would not have been fodder for LP, the media, and us.....quite frankly. IMO