Jules71
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I disagree. They were married for three years, if that. Even here, in a community property state, she would likely not be entitled to support, or it would be a very small amount for a very short period of time. She's relatively young and has a degree (supposedly) and is totally capable of supporting herself. If KH gets fully custody of baby, on the other hand, he is entitled to child support. And with 100% custody it would likely be fairly substantial depending on TH's projected earning capacity. Plus, it's probably determined by a straight calculation that doesn't take any other factors into consideration. Best case scenario for TH is she gets a tiny bit of support and pays no child support for now b/c she is currently and historically unemployed.
And OT -- I totally can't stand the entitlement mentality that a woman can continue to leach off her ex indefinitely, regardless of the circumstances. It's one thing to have been in a long-term marriage, raised the children as a sahm by mutual agreement and supported your husband's career (in any number of ways) and after many years he trades you in for a younger model or just decides he doesn't want to be married anymore, leaving you essentially unemployable and incapable of supporting yourself and/or the children. That situation is what alimony and child support were intended to address. (And in case your wondering, that didn't happen to me so I'm not speaking from bitterness lol) This situation is quite another -- regardless of whether you think TH is guilty or not. Imo, no-fault divorce is the worst concept ever. jmho
Just bouncing off of your post.... She might not be entitled to spousal 'support' - but she should be entitled to any joint finances they had. I don't think he can just cut her off because he is the one with the paycheck!