BBM
What was taking place in this household is extremely sad, dangerous, and ladened with apathy! Terri had three beautiful children in her care, did anyone try to get her help? How about ultimatums forcing her to seek help? Or was her disease overlooked because she was surrounded by enablers, people in denial, fearful, too busy, uncaring or too removed to seek options? moo
I know there are plenty of people who think that addictions are character flaws and see them as weakness, poor character, and intentional. Everyone is entitled to their opinion. I happen to agree with medical science/research that it is a disease of the brain and in no way represents a flawed human being. moo mho
For me, and me alone, I see addictions as a disease, a medical disease that, as of yet, has no real treatment (AA is the only tx I know of), much less a cure. Here are a few tidbits of info regarding alcoholism:
http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/alcoholism.html
For most adults, moderate alcohol use is not harmful. However,
nearly 17.6 million adults in the United States are alcoholics or have alcohol problems. Alcoholism is a disease with four main...*snip*
http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m0CXH/is_2_23/ai_59246569/
On any given day, more than 700,000 people in the United States receive alcoholism treatment in either inpatient or outpatient settings. For many of those patients, detoxification--with or without pharmacotherapy--is the first step of treatment. *snip*
http://abcnews.go.com/2020/alcoholic-moms-resource-guide-info/story?id=10501667
From dumping their stash of empty liquor bottles to hiding morning glasses of wine in coffee mugs, four mothers revealed to "20/20" the intimate and destructive details of their addiction to alcohol. *snip*
The above information isn't to excuse Terri in any way, it's to point out how devastating and prevalent the disease of alcoholism is.
So Terri is an alcoholic. She joins another 17 million people in the United States with the same addiction. Millions more if you add in addictions to Vicodin, Oxycontin, and other opiates, all of which are legal and very available to the addict. Addiction to heroin is not much different except it's illegal.
"On any given day over 700,000 people are treated for alcoholism - the first step is usually to detox either as an inpatient or outpatient."
Terri had in her care, 3 beautiful children, so I'm wondering why her disease went unnoticed, unattended, and or undiagnosed? Was everyone in denial? Why no family intervention? Certainly there was insurance for outpatient/inpatient treatment. Did anyone who cared about Terri consult an addiction specialist to seek options for the family? Anyone around to suggest AA meetings? Anyone point out the devastating effects her drinking had on the children/family? Now I'm wondering if Terri turned to sexual exploitation of herself when drunk, such as in the sexting? moo mho
Terri was basically destroying herself before everyone's eyes - where were her parents, friends, her husband? Why did this woman go without help for so long and than conveniently cast to the media as a fistful of garbage who wistfully plodded through life without a care in the world? All just my opinions and that kind of stuff moo mho