The issue I've been overthinking today - HA - is the two different stories about DM's experience that night. I had never heard the phrase "frozen shock phase" until the PCA, but I think I understand what it's meant to convey. However, I don't see how the two stories about that night can both be accurate. If DM yelled for quiet because she thought they were partying too loud, and she assumed BK was a guest of theirs, there is no reason for the frozen shock phase. Relief maybe, that things will finally quiet down and she can sleep, but not alarm.
If the PCA is the accurate story, that she heard crying and whimpering and difficult to identify noises, and seeing BK alarmed her enough to produce a frozen shock phase, than I don't see someone yelling for quiet in that situation.
I know the idea that she assumed the noises were partying started from the Reddit post allegedly from Ethan's SIL, and then spread. So far News Nation is the only one to claim they have their own source who spoke directly to Dylan and got the same story. All the other news stories either refer back to News Nation or Reddit.
I would like to think that Banfield will have a LOT of egg on her face if it turns out all this stuff from their own sources turns out to be completely wrong, but I suspect think most people assume the press believe we've reached the point where the press now make up anonymous sources to justify what they really want to say. MOOooo