If she does they will have to do a psych evaluation to make clear she is competent. I say if she wants it, stop the circus and give it to her.
Please let us be kind on the 'wheelchair' or 'cane' thing...
Lots of people use them as necessary, they don't like them, they don't want them, but at times they need them...
If mental issues could be so visible, we'd be baffled beyond belief...
You're right and I apologize.