But she didn't. And since I don't personally know her, I don't know if she really wanted the responsibility of raising a child fulltime. IMO, it was much easier raising a child that I had been raising, and changing schedule, routines, etc was the child changed. What care an infant needs is not the same as a 6 month, a toddler, a 2 yr old, etc. Each stage had it's own challenges. When I've babysat other people's children, I didn't know their quirks, their stages, and thus it took longer to calm a tantrum, longer to get a routine down.
From what little we've read, I don't think Danniella was a full time mom for any extended time. Even during her visitation, that's more like a play date with your nieces, nephews than parenting full time. There truly is a difference.
There's not enough evidence released for me to solidify how I think this will end. I believe ther's just as much weight towards her leaving voluntarily as there is someone harming her.