In my opinion only - the counselling didn't start and wasn't booked as couples counselling.
Alison was there to 'improve' herself. It was only that Carmel Ritchie mentioned to Alison that she could bring Gerard to a session if she wished. Alison thanked her but said she didn't think he'd come. I'm guessing that's why it wasn't booked as a couples session.
Carmel Ritchie seemed surprised to see him at the next session. She had no prior warning he would be there.
She started his session the same way she did Alison's. With a 60 second snapshot of the person that he was. This was just between the 2 of them while Alison waited in the waiting room.
I agree to some extent. I just wonder if it was specifically treated as individual therapy from the beginning, or if the intention was to work on the relationship without GBC there, and Allison just made the comment that she wanted to work on herself. This is common in women who are assuming too much responsibility on the state of their relationship, as I think Allison was. With the limited detail from the session she had with Carmel, she does seem to wear the blame for something that was not her fault.
As soon as GBC entered the client-counsellor relationship, and she spent a whole session talking to him about Allison and the homework task (and obviously asking him about himself), this turned into what I would call couples counselling (at least from an ethical point of view).
IMO, this is how the therapy may have started. Assuming she wasn't given Carmel's details from someone else, I would expect that Allison sought counselling for the purpose of saving her marriage - after all, it was 'Relationships Australia'. I'm sure she was hoping against hope that GBC would eventually attend with her.
She seemed to believe that by 'fixing' herself, she would fix the relationship. She had likely internalised (whether she wanted to or not) what GBC was saying to her - that she was to blame, that she was depressed, that she was the one who needed help, that she was the one he wanted to run from. And I believe Carmel probably saw this in her very quickly. This wasn't someone presenting to improve their life, this was someone wanting help to be a better wife because her husband wasn't happy with her.
If I am on the right track (probably not!!
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) I wonder if Allison had any insight of this - she had studied psych, was an experienced, worldly woman, yet still she felt she wasn't enough. Goes to show how damaging words from another can be.