I totally agree - they finally told LE that he intimidated them. Maybe they didn't know where she was or who she was with and Wes orchestrated all the ensuing drama. Wes didn't tell LE for 10 days that he supposedly met her at a gas station. He's crazy IMO. I think Drew believed him, too, for a while. Not sure when their knowledge of coke went to where recently he said Wes was doing heroin, too. That seemed to come out of the blue for me. I've never seen a case like this. Could she have gone off with a different group, maybe from college?
I think WH orchestrated the majority of all of it. At first: nobody wanted to believe he was capable of anything like murder. He talked to AJ's boyfriend in advance of going to her ex's home, asked about security features that could be there, a possible "easy way to enter the house," what her bf thought about AJ's ex...all kinds of questions. When AJ's other friends had heard that he broke into CF's home--WH threatened all of them saying if anyone talked, that he (Wes) was a member of the Aryan Brotherhood and "would take care of them."
I think bullying was just a part of his typical behavior...and he never ceased rambling, changing his story, adding and deleting things as it suited HIM. I believe it was a regular part of his personality and he likely felt he could outsmart/outwit/outdo everyone. Maybe JH finally had enough and was attempting to end their marriage. Look back at his behaviors the other times he was rejected. People already knew he could be violent.
Seems to me he ruled with threats and thought he would never get caught...or consequences. Also: another BIG problem he may have been facing besides family destruction and another potential divorce? Money. How could he afford his "heavy coke habit" that he even admitted to LE?
JH has a job, sure. Self-employed as a photographer, how much does that kind of work pay? She couldn't afford his habit...as well as her own if she had any. His job? HVAC/Plumbing jobs. Cocaine isn't cheap--especially when one develops a growing tolerance for it.
So--just speculating here--what if Wes had thought-up a little quick money scheme (read 'scam') to help with the mounting bills? What if he had a plan in the works knowing the date AJ would return home for Spring break...and when she was due back at school?
Maybe something he thought he would get away with...something where some trust and secrecy already existed, and to his thinking: a "better" scheme than robbing another bank?
All merely speculation here...but perhaps something to consider...
Ps...Taking in renters helps pay the bills, too. I'm not saying WH is a dirty rat and everyone else involved is sterling.