I totally agree that we are warned not to use spirits which are deceased. I have had what is called the gift of "knowledge" my entire life. People can be talking to me and I will know what the "background" behind what they are saying is. I believe God gave me that because he intended for me to use it to help others, which I have always tried to do.
I have to be very careful though in how much I tell someone. Many times they are not "ready" to hear all I know. I have to do it in a process rather than blurting it out, like I did as a child.
There was a child in my neighborhood when I was around 8 years old who was being molested by her father. I was in their living room and just blurted out to him for him to stop hurting her that way and that I was going to tell my mother. I had NO IDEA about anything sexual, but I knew in my spirit he was hurting her. Needless to say, this caused a lot of problems, but in the end, I did tell my mother, and she did investigate it. He left town.
I could write books on my experiences, but one interesting thing is I don't have to be in their presence to "know' the story behind the story. I avoid it most times, to keep my mind from being overloaded, but on occasion, I will become involved.
This one has something VERY DARK and hidden. I can see that but I can't get through the darkness. GA has what I call "shadows" on his face, which I am aware not everyone sees. I didn't know for years that not everyone saw those "shadows". CA is very clear. She is stupid, and full of fear, but clear. LA has those same shadows. I believe from my past experience in what I felt there is some type of sexual molestation in this case.