It's no secret NJ and I are friends now and being so, I am VERY protective over her. I know how much she has been hurt by this. She is an awesome person. You also have to remember that these moms reached out to CL, immediately after AL was arrested. NJ had been trying to get CL to go to her church, prior to this happening. Her daughter had already been going with them I believe, and I think CL had been once. And NJ was never trying to help her with an alibi, that makes it sound like she was helping her do something wrong. Which she certainly wasn't. She was just trying to jog her memory of things she might have done that weekend. Most everything CL said that NJ spoke of was true, but she left out the BIG parts obviously. If you remember AL's affidavit, he mentions a woman picking up the daughter for school that Thursday morning, and the daughter spent the night there as well. CL went to pick her up that Friday morning and she didn't act like someone that had just helped kidnap BC and keeping her in the closet etc. So she was easy to believe. You would certainly think someone who has just done all that would be in a very bad state.
Right after AL was arrested, it was almost impossible for CL to stay at her house. News reporters, from even other countries, were parked outside her house and constantly ringing the doorbell. So CL spent a lot of that month leaning on NJ and the other moms. NJ is the type of person that would give you the shirt off her back and she truly believed CL, as did all the others. I'm not sure at what point but CL did tell NJ about the swinging couples but not the prostitution that I know of. I think she was already in jail before she told about being swingers. I do think friends were surprised by it. CL came across as a quite person. I know she was pretty confused about that knife picture that CL put up and told her how bad it looked. Obviously CL didn't listen, not that it matters now.
NJ is not the type that is going to abandon you, when times get hard, and she truly believed CL up until she called and told her she was taking the plea deal. Even after that she wanted to believe that as CL said, she was taking it because she thought she wouldn't get a fair trial. The closer it came to trial, NJ really didn't hear from CL anymore and we kind of figure it's because she knew what would be coming out at trial. And trust me, it devastated NJ and that broke my heart for her. I hope I haven't said more than she would want me too but I wanted you to understand why she stood up for CL, it is because she has a huge heart and she is loyal and the world needs more of that. I know I'm blessed to call her my friend.
You are a good friend, and NJ is blessed, as well.
I have had the same best friend since I was five (that was a really long time ago). We are friends until the end. She has done things that I didn't agree with, and I have done things that she didn't. I don't think she would ever do the things CL did (sure the heck hope not), but it would take an amazing amount of evidence to make me believe it if she did. I get NJ. I think she believed things that looking from the outside in, I couldn't understand how she did. I can't judge, though. I have been fooled a time or two by people I thought I knew. And like I said, it would take some pretty damning evidence for me to take the word of another over my bff. Who wants to believe anyone they knew could be involved in something so horrific? I feel for the family and friends of CL. It will be a very long time before they can interact with her in the outside world. She is where she needs to be, though. BC has a family and friends that don't have the luxury of a phone call or visit, though be it through a glass window, at all. CL did the right thing at the trial, and I hope the misery that is clear on her face in photos is for what she did, and not for where she is. She said she wanted BC gone permanently, and when asked if she was sure, didn't think twice about it. She is a very bad person, and the world is better off without her in it.