sammy32
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You have to remember they were not out of funds, the whole time they were together. He still had some of his money from his lawsuit. I don't recall anyone saying that she couldn't go to school and work, it was stated that he didn't want her to do that. I imagine that AL seemed like a white knight to her at first. Showering her with all the things she wanted to hear. She doesn't seem like the type that has much self-esteem and sadly that is what got her hooked up with AL I think.
I totally agree with the self esteem issue!! I think she was 40 and single and felt like she needed "a man" - any man. There are so many women out there who are lonely and scared to go at it alone. I think she ignored the red flags and her gut feeling that this was all wrong. Probably thinking "just get me through school and I will get out of this mess". I also think maybe she is a "fixer" - leading her to help him clean up his mess that Thursday night, going to the hospital when he called, etc. Having a soft heart and not listening to her gut, again. AL appears to be a smooth talker - not bad looking (compared to some criminal types) and maybe convinced her that if she loved him, he could change, and they could conquer the world together. Many ladies fall under the spell of a jerk in hopes for that happy ending. JMO. Unfortunately, it appears she is in store for a very sad ending.