This is my first post here even though I've been reading the forum on and off for about a year. I am definitely team RDI.
The one thing I'm confused about and the one thing that keeps me from being able to pinpoint one Ramsey is: was this crime sexually motivated?
I tend to say no because (and this could be wrong) but to my understanding, the paintbrush was what was used to molest her. I feel like if it were sexually motivated, it wouldn't be a paintbrush, it'd likely be more traditional rape. Thank god it wasn't, but that part confuses me. A lot of people claim she had previous sexual abuse and I can't seem to figure out any evidence to support that claim. Then there's the whole "pedophile ring" theory. Though that still confuses me because of the paintbrush thing.
So my questions are:
- Was the paintbrush used to molest her on the night of her murder?
- Was there any proof she had previous sexual abuse?
This is the one thing that keeps me from being able to know which Ramsey did it and why. I tend to lean towards the accidental/staged theory. If anyone could answer these that would help a lot! Thank you!
Welcome to WS,
nyclaura.
I don't think there's any doubt (at least in my mind) that this was sexually motivated.
It wasn't really a kidnapping -- there was no call from the "foreign faction" to arrange for the money exchange.
It wasn't to get even with John somehow -- if so, her body would have been "displayed" in a way to shock instead of cleaned of blood, redressed, and hidden away in a little-used room.
It wasn't even a rape in the usual sense -- no semen and almost certainly no penile penetration (per the medical examiner and a panel of outside medical and child abuse experts). Instead she was sexually assaulted with something "consistent with digital penetration." And due to the finding of a wooden splinter (or
splinters) in her vaginal vault that was consistent with the wood in the paintbrush tied to the ligature, it is most likely that the paintbrush was used before it was broken (the end has never been found) or possibly a splinter was transferred by a finger after the paintbrush had been broken.
There's much more to the sexual aspect than just this that gets more complicated, but she was most likely molested in the days/weeks (
possibly months) prior to her death by someone who had regular access to her (per that same group of medical experts). All of this was deliberately covered up by someone who didn't want this part of the crime to be known. As for who might be responsible for this prior and perimortem abuse, you'll have to decide for yourself. And to do that, you have to ask yourself who would be responsible for this type of molestation, and is that necessarily the same person who staged the crime to look like a kidnapping.