Arizona girl, 2, left in car by father on 109-degree day and is found dead

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An anesthesiologist could afford a live-in nanny. I'm actually surprised they didn't have one anyway.

We don't know their exact financial situation. I do taxes for a lot of people who make 10x or more money a year than I do, seriously, and they live pay check to paycheck. Loans, mortgages, living the "lifestyle". It is insane how little financial planning and savings people do now...
 
How Many Yrs. Together?

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Q: Anyone have a link handy re CRS & ES being together since 2012? Or any specific yr?
I have not found a marriage date or a year-specific ref to their being together.

I wonder because the Complaint in AZ. ct proceeding against CRS, was filed by his child's mother on May 2, 2012.
AFAIK, info from earlier link* does not show the child's age.

Timing may or may not be relevant.
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I recall reading (in Daily Mail?) CRS made a stmt
(on his FB? IG? or ?) about TEN wonderful yrs together w ES, but IDK when/what yr CRS said that.

* Ct. info.
I'm not sure whether or not there was relationship overlap matters as much as his failure to pay CS, the possible link of that to SAH (no garnishable wages) even though he seemed to try to avoid key tasks of that role and that he was non-compliant with court orders or even attending hearings, such that multiple civil arrest orders were issued by the court.

It is not behavior that prioritizes needs or wellbeing of a child or shows respect for rules and authority, even when that leads to consequences. I think that non-appearance history may have played into him being kept in custody but for the ardent appeal of ES in the present case.

IME some people don't think rules apply to them and they act that out in multiple situations.

I still cannot get over the "Sorry Babe!" text re: a dead toddler. It's astonishing. As was his attempt to trash his wife to LE and her blind devotion to him with only the briefest display of anger over her dead 2 year old. I really worry about grief stricken young kids and their needs in the midst of this dynamic. JMOO, YMMV.
 
How Many Yrs. Together?

snipped for focus.
Q: Anyone have a link handy re CRS & ES being together since 2012? Or any specific yr?
I have not found a marriage date or a year-specific ref to their being together.

I wonder because the Complaint in AZ. ct proceeding against CRS, was filed by his child's mother on May 2, 2012.
AFAIK, info from earlier link* does not show the child's age.

Timing may or may not be relevant.
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I recall reading (in Daily Mail?) CRS made a stmt
(on his FB? IG? or ?) about TEN wonderful yrs together w ES, but IDK when/what yr CRS said that.

* Ct. info.

I pulled it out of an article here; the post was on dad's IG, the same where he posted photos of Parker. I might have calculated it and came up with 2012. I shall try to check it, but honestly, it doesn't change the current circumstances at all. That he is a selfish, deadbeat dad is no surprise. If Parker's mom was denying the obvious, then it came biting her back in the most horrible way. I assume she is functioning in a self-preservation mode now, and she is necessary for the other girls.
 
How Many Yrs. Together?

snipped for focus.
Q: Anyone have a link handy re CRS & ES being together since 2012? Or any specific yr?
I have not found a marriage date or a year-specific ref to their being together.

I wonder because the Complaint in AZ. ct proceeding against CRS was filed by his child's mother on May 2, 2012.
AFAIK, info from earlier link* does not show the child's age.

Timing may or may not be relevant.
____________________________
I recall reading (in Daily Mail?) CRS made a stmt
(on his FB? IG? or ?) about TEN wonderful yrs together w ES, but IDK when/what yr CRS said that.

* Ct. info.
"Chris and Erika started dating on October 19, 2012, according to a post Chris made on their 10th anniversary."

 
"Chris and Erika started dating on October 19, 2012, according to a post Chris made on their 10th anniversary."

Yes,the title says, after father made terrible mistake but it would be more accurate if it read, after irresponsible and dangerous practice caught up with father, sadly.
 
I'm not sure whether or not there was relationship overlap matters as much as his failure to pay CS, the possible link of that to SAH (no garnishable wages) even though he seemed to try to avoid key tasks of that role and that he was non-compliant with court orders or even attending hearings, such that multiple civil arrest orders were issued by the court.

It is not behavior that prioritizes needs or wellbeing of a child or shows respect for rules and authority, even when that leads to consequences. I think that non-appearance history may have played into him being kept in custody but for the ardent appeal of ES in the present case.

IME some people don't think rules apply to them and they act that out in multiple situations....
I pulled it out of an article here; the post was on dad's IG, the same where he posted photos of Parker. I might have calculated it and came up with 2012. I shall try to check it, but honestly, it doesn't change the current circumstances at all. That he is a selfish, deadbeat dad is no surprise....
@LifeIsAMystery and @Charlot123 Thx for your responses.
No need to spend time chasing down a specific year.
As post said, timing may or may not be relevant.
Yes, there may (or may not) have been relationship overlap, but I wondered more about -

DISCLOSURE(s).
1. Did CRS tell ES about the paternity issue? Did he stay mum on the topic to lead her blindfolded down the garden path? Or did she enter their relationship & marriage already aware of paternity issue? IDK.

2. Were there financial skeletons in his closet?? Huuuge loans he was unable to pay? Bankruptcy? Fraudulent business practices? IDK.

3. Or?

Did ES date & marry him w 'out his making disclosures? IDK.

Horrid to think marrying then learning about these things later. imo
 
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We don't know their exact financial situation. I do taxes for a lot of people who make 10x or more money a year than I do, seriously, and they live pay check to paycheck. Loans, mortgages, living the "lifestyle". It is insane how little financial planning and savings people do now...
True. And at the same time we currently don’t know if the family did already have some kind of help such as a housekeeper or someone working a couple days a week to help the dad out.

A part time nanny 4 hours a day 5 days a week wouldn’t be horribly expensive. No need for a live in. A friend of mine has a trusted woman in on weekdays to help out her stay at home husband while she goes to the office. No shame in an extra person to watch the kids.

But IMO the family must have some disposable income as the link noted various vacations:

Erika and Chris took frequent holidays in the past year - posting about their adventures on social media.

They went skiing in Banff in February, with their older daughters in tow, and took a beach holiday to Cancun in March with the whole family.

The couple also traveled through Europe in June, Seattle in October, and Sedona in June last year, just the two of them.

 
Other Dau's at Home? Elec. Data. :)

sbm @Allabouttrial Thx for your post.
When Father returned home from errands that day, who was w him?
- Toddler only?
If so, had he dropped off other 2 elsewhere? OR if so, had he left other 2 at home by themselves? How old? Grade school? No sleuthing pls
OR w supervision?

- Toddler PLUS one or both other dau's?
If one of the two dau's said - Daddy played video when we came home that day then (if truthful) one or both could have actual knowledge of his actions that day.
If the oldest daughter was home, I feel like she'd be worried about the baby sister being out in the car. I hope she wasn't home. :confused:
OTOH, if Father had dropped both off and come home w toddler ONLY, then seems one dau or both dau's must have referred to Father having done this on OTHER occasions. Maybe frequently, maybe “only a few” times (which would have been too many).

- Or possibly FRIEND not yet mentioned in MSM of this thread?

If anyone has link(s) or quotes handy to answer these Q’s, I’d be grateful. I tried to backtrack but did not nail the info.

Awful death, but also awful to think about young children in this situation and potentially testifying.

Anyhoo, seems w cell phones, iPads, car telematics, gaming gizmos, PCs, etc., LE can analyze digital/electronic DATA that tells timing & DETAILS of Father’s actions sufficient for the appropriate CRIM prosecution.
jmo
Going by the cameras, Dad never checked on her? :mad:

We can't write this off as a horrible accident, where a tired parent drives to work and forgets to drop Baby off at daycare. This was intentional and criminally negligent IMO.
 
If the oldest daughter was home, I feel like she'd be worried about the baby sister being out in the car. I hope she wasn't home. :confused:

Going by the cameras, Dad never checked on her? :mad:

We can't write this off as a horrible accident, where a tired parent drives to work and forgets to drop Baby off at daycare. This was intentional and criminally negligent IMO.
Reports are that the 9 year old and the 5 year old sisters of the deceased child were at home. If they were dropped off at home just before Dad and the 2 year old arrived, they might not actually be aware their little sister was in the car, but assume she was somewhere else because Dad never mentioned her or checked on her.

And yes, the allegations by LE are that

1. CS was not correct (aka: untruthful) about their arrival time at home.

2. Security cameras document no one went to the car with the child in it for almost 4 hours.

3. Dad claimed he didn't get an alert from the car that the engine had shut off.

I, too, feel this was criminally negligent.
 
If the oldest daughter was home, I feel like she'd be worried about the baby sister being out in the car. I hope she wasn't home. :confused:

Going by the cameras, Dad never checked on her? :mad:

We can't write this off as a horrible accident, where a tired parent drives to work and forgets to drop Baby off at daycare. This was intentional and criminally negligent IMO.
Both other girls got home from somewhere else within 1 minute of when CS arrived with Parker. At 12:52-12:53.
 
All speculation, but I don't see why we wouldn't consider the husband was lying and had told his wife he stopped that behavior. Although you'd think he would've 'remembered' the child sooner knowing wife would be home to see he's still up to what he said he wasn't.

I'm imagining a 'sorry babe it'll never happen again!' Or acting self righteous when accused 'of course I didn't use the car as a baby sitter today! What are you talking about??' Kind of deal. All moo
 
True. And at the same time we currently don’t know if the family did already have some kind of help such as a housekeeper or someone working a couple days a week to help the dad out.

A part time nanny 4 hours a day 5 days a week wouldn’t be horribly expensive. No need for a live in. A friend of mine has a trusted woman in on weekdays to help out her stay at home husband while she goes to the office. No shame in an extra person to watch the kids.

But IMO the family must have some disposable income as the link noted various vacations:

Erika and Chris took frequent holidays in the past year - posting about their adventures on social media.

They went skiing in Banff in February, with their older daughters in tow, and took a beach holiday to Cancun in March with the whole family.

The couple also traveled through Europe in June, Seattle in October, and Sedona in June last year, just the two of them.


Just because they travel a lot, is pretty meaningless. People can have a Range Rover, Tesla, go to Hawaii, beautiful home...and still be in debt, and living paycheck to paycheck, even doctors.
 
If he's not in jail now, I don't think it is likely before there is a conviction and sentencing has occurred, if a custodial sentence even happens, which I don't think is all that likely.

I'm not sure what happens with no adult working. I guess she could go PT when school starts?
I’d like to think public pressure will have him back in jail immediately following the funeral.

I’d also hope that he is only allowed INDEPENDENTLY SUPERVISED visitations with his children that can be suspended with even the hint that he is trying to threaten/coerce the girls and/or his wife or of there is even a hint of familial violence.
 
I’d like to think public pressure will have him back in jail immediately following the funeral.
I’d also hope that he is only allowed INDEPENDENTLY SUPERVISED visitations with his children that can be suspended with even the hint that he is trying to threaten/coerce the girls and/or his wife or of there is even a hint of familial violence.
Agree but don't think either is likely, unfortunately. His wife's plea on his behalf likely has him out until trial, whenever that will be. If it can be PROVED that he violated the terms of the order, he could be remanded following the 8/1 hearing, well after the funeral. Parents rarely are locked up in these cases, unfortunately. IMOO it could help have a deterrent effect and save lives. JMOOO.
 
I’d like to think public pressure will have him back in jail immediately following the funeral.

I’d also hope that he is only allowed INDEPENDENTLY SUPERVISED visitations with his children that can be suspended with even the hint that he is trying to threaten/coerce the girls and/or his wife or of there is even a hint of familial violence.
That's assuming that he's interested enough in those girls to request (IMHO unlikely) and they want to see him (also unlikely).
 

I remember reading about this car death case when it happened. Dad accidentally left toddler in car when he went to work. As soon as he found the baby, he ended his life.

Tragic story. Obviously one of the hundreds we read about. I find his reaction more understandable than texting my spouse saying Sorry Babe.”
 
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