K, as the facts stand. W was and is not a victim. She died and we are left with consequences. Daughters, sisters and mothers.. Don't be in a situation you can't control. Get out as soon you can. My mother died after 25 years of physically brutality buy her HUSBAND. Let us teach our daughters of violence in which it is not their fault. My mothers husband bashed me once and I fought back. But my mother never forgave me. Gt is awful and so I'd Gerad Baden-Clay. But Gable should or could give money to WR as they had carry her body to NZ.
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IMO Warriena was a victim. Tostee was charged with murder and there was a reason for that. Just because a jury couldn't find beyond reasonable doubt that GT did something with the very little evidence they had does not make Tostee innocent. The fact he threatened to throw her from the balcony prior to her death speaks volumes to me and definitely intent if Warriena didn't behave herself in Tostee's words. I will never believe this was an accident.
And yes, you are right, DV is never okay no matter who it happens to. I am sorry you lost your mother in that horrible situation, and my heartfelt condolences to you.
The problem is every relationship has a certain amount of risk attached, and someone that can seem loving and caring initially can turn into a monster after a while. We have no guarantee with that, and it is a very complex issue in our society today.