ITA about granny being hinky. She has been all over the media talking about racial bias (while she's being interviewed by FOX news, for Pete's sake) and saying things that contradict what we are hearing other places. I wonder if she's been cleared?
[NOTE: I am not saying there is no racial bias. I just feel that granny has her own agenda and is more worried about spouting it on TV than talking about Jahessye.]
Honestly, if mom has turned her life around, would there be anything more infuriating to an abusive granny who THINKS she was a good mom than to see her daughter behave differently?
When I think of some of the conflicts I've had with my own parents about my choices that are different from theirs, and we have a GREAT relationship and no abuse. But it still makes people feel a little bit judged when someone makes radically different parenting choices. I know it drives me nuts when my brother calls and asks for advice and then does the exact opposite - I know it isn't right, but it makes me feel like he's saying, "Well, we don't want to do THAT!" :crazy:
So with a history of abuse and if mom was trying to do everything BUT what her own mom did...I could see how that could make granny defensive, hostile, and maybe even took Jahessye to prove that she ISN'T a better mother.
Oh, how I pray that granny took Jahessye and she's safely tucked away somewhere until granny gets her 15 minutes and "I told you so."
raying:
Also, wonder if the landlord kicked her out b/c she was being disruptive or arguing loudly with JH.