Just thought it was curious,JS being an ex marine and hunter.
Hey shadow,
I was looking at motives,actually we should have a thread entitled "motives".But,on the GR show when GR told RC that Crystal's family has seen marijuana plants around the trailer and bricks of marijuana inside,I found that odd,because Crystal and Marie said on NGrace,they've never been to the trailer.I just wondered about the treelimb chair in woods the TES searchers found,looked like a hunters chair.The military cord was fairly new,also.
I was thinking the same thing also. So who was it that saw these things if Crystal and her mother have never been there.
This is one of the reason I have such a problem with anything that comes from the mothers side.
Again, not just taking one thing but adding them all up there are too many statements made by CS that don't ring true.
These abuse allegations are causing me a major problem.
Going by my own sisters allegations of abuse against my brother-in-law I have a problem in just believing CS. My sister could have won an award for best actress and not one thing she said was true. The court did not believe her either because she never did one thing that she needed to do to provide proof to the court.
The judge cannot just take her word for it.
On the other hand I have direct knowledge of abuse since I was a victim of it myself growing up. I was not an adult and I did not have any adults that were willing to do what would have been necessary to provide proof either.
Its just today is not like it was many years ago. There are programs in place, laws in place that make it so the one who is a victim can truly do something about it.
I noticed a post about signs of someone who is abused and yes CS does show some of those signs. She also shows signs of long term drug addiction and behaviors that go along with not taking responsibility for her own self.
The thing that is not being looked out is that Ron may not have been the cause of those signs. It could very well be from her father JS, her mother Marie G. Most, not all, women who get into abusive relationships come from an abusive home in the first place.
As far as Misty goes we already know that she was a victim of abuse and I would be willing to be a goodly amount of cyber $$ that she has never received any counseling about it. Her gravitation to Ron may be because he is a gun toting, cussing fighting man and she feels safe being with him. She is willing to put up with him hollering at her because in her mind shes being treated better that what she knows.
How many times have we all heard from the women who is always running in circles trying to find the money to pay the rent or buy groceries and she lives with the guy who is drunk, is lazy, doesn't work or help with chores and doesn't pay attention to the children. We ask why are you still with him and the words we hear back 'well he doesnt beat on me'.
Ron is not someone who I would choose to live with. His being quick to temper could be a marker for a man who is abusive but the only examples of that are his 911 phone call which has to be put in its proper context and allegations of Crystal and her family. We have some court documents that could show that but getting into fights with other men does not mean he is abusive to women.
I am not defending Ron nor choosing sides. The one thing that I have learned is that where you live, what you live in, what you do for a living and if you are formally educated has no real bearing on what type of person one is.
There is no pre-requisite for being an a$$hole.
