A very, very sad and excruciatingly drawn out ending for this young womans lifeborn into extreme wealth, which was fueled by the exceptional talent of her mother. But also born and raised in an environment of drug abuse and domestic violence orchestrated by her father, which apparently repeated the cycle in her short life. Very sad that she never had a chance to escape the chaos, drug abuse, and feudingnot even to form her own identity apart from the vultures who facetiously preyed on her.
Deeply saddening that the chaos, narcissistic drama, and family feuding has followed her to her funeral, and her grave. So many people want a piece of this young woman and her $$ inheritance. Im just sickened that both sides of the family couldnt come together in a dignified and respectful fashion to remember her, and bury her, without the drama and feuding. Whitneys wealth is still buying the upperclass image of the fancy clothes and the nice cars both sides of the family arrived in, but none of that compensates for their obvious low class lack of character, IMO.
I realize that a funeral is for the benefit of the living, not the departedbut the whole sweet sixteen theme is just deeply disrespectful in this situation, IMO. All that says on the part of the planner is 2 things: you werent what I wanted you to be, and now Im re-writing your history to cleanse you and make you into that person I envisioned. BK was never the sweet, innocent young girl coming of age with a sweet sixteen party and a pretty pink dress. Her short life was chaotic, and fueled with alcohol and drugs, and violence and vultures. This funeral, IMO, wasnt about remembering the young woman that was BKB at alljust about how each side of the family could continue to use her memory to re-create their desired image of her (and themselves), and poke the other side of the family in the eye. (While mentally counting the dollars that are up for grabs.) IMO.
I don't care how many police escorts, and black shiny vehicles there were-- there was no dignity for BKB at that funeral, IMO. None of it was about HER, IMO. I mean, what kind of a person walks out of a funeral to hold a press conference to bi#@h, accuse, and complain?? Sad, very, very sad.
