SleuthyGal
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If you go back and look at the posts from Aug 08 you will see that many people were sure that Brad did it when all that was known was about the puzzling Harris Teeter visits and the fact that they were discussing separation.
Back in Aug '08 there was a specific poster who insisted that Brad had made a 4:20am visit to HT. Her son worked at that store and there was some info she got from said son about the police coming in to see the store surveillance videos and she claimed a 4:20am visit was found/confirmed in which Brad purchased bleach...then it changed to cleaning supplies...then settled on the Tide detergent. She spread the 4:20am RUMOR far and wide and stood by her info as infallible.
AND...most people at that time assumed she knew what she was talking about because she was so adamant about it. She got people put on time out or banned who questioned her about this assertion, her info, her source, etc.
BUT...she was wrong. VERY wrong.
When someone inserts themselves into a criminal case it should always be looked at with a critical eye, and absolute proof of their assertion(s) should be mandatory before anyone takes their belief as actual evidence. That rumor caused a lot of problems and it was a shame. I'm not in Brad's corner, but I found the spread of that rumor unfair. I too believed it for awhile and then realized it might not be true and only through testimony could I ever be certain.
When someone refers to the 'housewives of Cary' as 'gossiping hens' this is the type of person they should be referring to. Not someone actually in the know, like Nancy's friends. Someone who gets 3rd and 4th hand info and then spreads it.