UnionTrib article on a girl who knew JAG 10 yrs ago:
A 23-year-old reveals to her Rancho Bernardo parents that she had a relationship with the suspect 10 years ago.Ten years ago, John Albert Gardner III went on long walks with a girl in their Rancho Bernardo neighborhood, put his jacket around her shoulders when she shivered, touched his lips to hers.
He was nearly 21. She was 14.
It was her first kiss, but something she only told her parents about this week when Gardner was accused of raping and killing teenager Chelsea King down the street.
Linda Boltman, the mother of the now-23-year-old, agreed to an interview on the condition her daughter's last name, which is different from hers, not be used.
"She's devastated," Boltman said yesterday. "How would you feel if your first kiss was with a predator?" Gardner spent five years in prison for sexually assaulting one of Boltman's daughter's friends in 2000. After his release, he returned to their Rancho Bernardo neighborhood without Boltman or her daughter knowing it.
The daughter granted a brief interview to "Inside Edition," on the condition her name not be used and her face not be shown, but she is not doing more, Boltman said.
Her daughter kept the extent of her relationship with Gardner to herself until Monday night, Boltman said. Ten years ago, she would say she was visiting a friend, then walk around with him at night.
Boltman, who described her daughter as a straight-A student set to graduate from college in May, said her daughter told her she had been flattered by Gardner's attention.
The girl had braces and was tall for her age. She was surrounded by immature boys at school, and Gardner, then 6 feet 2 and 210 pounds, was anything but an awkward adolescent, her mother said.
He was clean-cut and could carry on a conversation, she said.
"He was the perfect gentleman," Boltman said of her daughter's description of that time.
"She just thought it was so cool that an older guy was interested in her and treated her like a lady and could talk to her," she said.
"All the important things to a girl that age."
That year, on March 16, 2000, Boltman's daughter accepted a ride to middle school from Gardner with her then-best friend. The other girl, 13, stayed in the car, returned to Gardner's mother's house and was later molested by him.
Gardner received six years in state prison for the incident. He served five and was released in September 2005. His last contact with city police, with whom he had to register as a sex offender, was in 2007, when he relocated to Lake Elsinore.
He also lived at an apartment complex in Escondido until six months ago, said a neighbor who would not give her name to protect her identity at work. Gardner lived there with a woman and two toddlers, and male and female teenagers would come over to play video games with him.
Boltman, 62, is upset that authorities never notified her daughter or anyone in her family about Gardner's release. At the time of his release, there was no requirement to notify witnesses.
That changed in 2008, when voters approved a crime victims' bill of rights act known as Marsy's Law. It created a notification system for victims, witnesses and others who requested information on an inmate's release, escape, death or criminal appeal.
Boltman, who lives a block from Gardner's mother's house on Matinal Road, is convinced that Gardner was more interested in her daughter than in the friend who was molested 10 years ago.
She said she cannot imagine her daughter's reaction if she had seen Gardner in the neighborhood after his release from prison.
Her voice breaking, Boltman explained how her daughter identified Gardner at a preliminary hearing in the case 10 years ago, and how difficult it was for the girl and the family.
"I'm very proud of my daughter," Boltman said. "That was so unbelievably courageous of her, and I still continue to be in awe of her. She's an amazing woman."
She said her daughter mistrusted older men until she realized she "was letting (Gardner) control her life and she said, `I'm not going to let him do that.'" Boltman said her daughter has tried to stay strong this week.
"She doesn't want this to affect her life and career and all the things she's doing now."