Kaliste
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My husband and I have been trying to have a baby, for a very long time. After a second fertility treatment, I got pregnant...I begged him not to tell anyone, since it had taken, so many years...but he told his mom, dad, ppl at work...so at almost 11 weeks at my dr. appointment, he couldn't find the heart beat. So I had to call my husband and tell him to tell everyone, I had lost it. It was so devastating to me. Esp. My mother-in - law is the most stressful person, you could ever meet. After, I had a d&c...i felt like a failure, I felt, my body had failed me. We are still "trying" but it's very emotional...ESP..when people, like in-laws put so much pressure on you. If she didn't tell her mom, about the second pregnancy, I would totally understand. I'm still very guarded and don't want to talk about it. It seems as though, mom is saying it was confirmed. Just my 2 cents and my opinion.
I hope you get your miracle baby soon, blondgrl.
I'm hoping for some news on Erin in the morning. Sadly this seems like the kind if case that could drag out for months or years.