Just me, but if some random lady I met at an event and only saw a couple of times at other events said she wanted to be part of my kids life forever and offered to babysit, I would decline too. That would freak me out tbh.
But you weren't out here trying to get your family to trend on Instagram and what have you with your own hashtag and what not or letting your children give long hugs to adults. 🤷🏾*♀️