GrainneDhu
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The difference is now they are telling the whole word how edgy and sharp they are...not just putting it on for their friends at school. The dangers of the internet have been an issue for almost 2 decades now and still don't seem to sink in, or be stressed enough for parents re: their kids. How many cases have we seen this year alone on WS where a girl is missing and the first info states that she may be with a man she met online? And there are probably many more we don't hear about. Not saying this is what happened with Sierra, but she was sure making herself a target. I am not picking on her at all, as I read all the back on her twitter and she seems underneath it all to be a sweetheart and often sad, but the surface is what the creeps see who are looking for girls, victims, whatever...JMO
While I agree that the internet can be used by predators, I don't see any statistical evidence that there has been a rise in violent crime because of the internet.
In fact, violent crime has been trending downwards in the last 20 years.
One big, HUGE difference now from when I grew up in the late 60s/early 70s is that people talk a lot more about sexual assaults. There's a lot more recognition.
When I was raped as a 12 year old in that time period, I literally had no vocabulary to describe what the man who raped me was doing to me. None of my age cohort friends would have had the words for it, either (in other words, I was not some weirdo at that time).
Molestation and rape were just not something people talked to their children about. And it was largely unacknowledged by the culture at large; it was dismissed as a "women's issue" in the same tone of voice that employment inequality was a "women's issue" rather than an issue of fairness or civil rights that should be of concern to everyone.
I'm not sure how to say this, so I will just say it and hope that people will understand: predators are (and always have been) predators. If the predator who grabbed Sierra did find her via the internet, that doesn't mean that s/he would not have grabbed someone if there were no internet. A predator is a walking crime looking for an opportunity to happen.
Yes, if the predator who grabbed Sierra found her via the internet had not found her that way, Sierra would not be missing.
But some other victim who fit the predator's profile would be missing instead.
That is the nature of predators. If they can't hunt using one method, they won't give up on hunting, they will just shift to a different method. They will find a way.