Zella
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@KR72 I agree about the direction of some of the speculation about Bryer's mom. We know more about AS because he is more vocal about his story, and though I feel sorry for him, he certainly does seem very troubled.
All we really know from MSM media about the mother is that Bryer ran away at one point (presumably from mom's), that he hasn't lived there since, and that according to one of her former coworkers, she was afraid of him but also spoiled him. I don't feel comfortable speculating beyond that except to conclude things were probably troubled in that house, but who's to "blame" for that is anybody's guess and it seems unfair to assume she is a terrible person based on that information. And based on what we know about Bryer, I don't think it is unreasonable to assume she probably was afraid of him.
Still, we don't know what relationship he had with his mom. He may well have been seeing her regularly like he did his dad--I know some parent-child relationships work better when not under the same roof--or they may have been completely estranged. We just simply don't know.
And as for the talk about his dad not being notified he was missing and learning through the newspaper, I agree that is unfortunate. However, I strongly suspect that any communication his mom's family had to have with his father was conducted through Bryer. Since Bryer wasn't there, they may very well not have had contact information for his father.
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All we really know from MSM media about the mother is that Bryer ran away at one point (presumably from mom's), that he hasn't lived there since, and that according to one of her former coworkers, she was afraid of him but also spoiled him. I don't feel comfortable speculating beyond that except to conclude things were probably troubled in that house, but who's to "blame" for that is anybody's guess and it seems unfair to assume she is a terrible person based on that information. And based on what we know about Bryer, I don't think it is unreasonable to assume she probably was afraid of him.
Still, we don't know what relationship he had with his mom. He may well have been seeing her regularly like he did his dad--I know some parent-child relationships work better when not under the same roof--or they may have been completely estranged. We just simply don't know.
And as for the talk about his dad not being notified he was missing and learning through the newspaper, I agree that is unfortunate. However, I strongly suspect that any communication his mom's family had to have with his father was conducted through Bryer. Since Bryer wasn't there, they may very well not have had contact information for his father.
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