Shalya
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I think that the reason that people are quick to disagree with you Seebra, is the idea that these men were using Casey. Thats just a guess.
I think Casey actually really lucked out with the guys she was with. They didnt expect too much from her (like an actual job schedule). They either loved or really liked her daughter. TL didnt seem unhappy with spending time with Caylee, in fact, he seemed to like her quite a lot. Can you really blame him for not wanting a two year old to spend the night in a place where she didnt have a bed, her own changes of clothes, bath toys, special kid dishes every kid has that stuff, and if your home is just not outfitted for a child (and you dont necessarily want it to be), doesnt make them bad guys who were using Casey. Also, lets just pause on the TL wanted boys line. People say all kinds of things when they say someday. I doubt very much TL would have asked his future partner to abort any female fetuses. Its like being a kid and saying I want one boy and one girl, and they should be twins and Im going to name them Mark and Mary! I dont think TL was actually thinking that Casey was listening to him for clues for how she- could be Mrs. RightForever.
Also, I dont think Casey was upset or desperate. Unless youre talking about her not getting what she wanted at the particular moment she wanted it. It wasnt about some deep desire to be accepted and loved (this is just my opinion). It was about her desire to be out of her parents house and to not need them anymore, but not because they put constant pressure on her. It was because their recent- questions were beginning to interfere with her lies, and she really didnt like that. Theyd always sat back and took what she said as gospel. She didnt see it, but stealing from her grandparents was a -major- NONO for what Cindy was willing to put up with. She wasnt willing to just let it go (though she protected her from the law, she wasnt going to act like it never happeneduntil Caylee was gone and she was afraid of losing Casey too).
All the excuses that Casey was giving for not meeting up with was it WW?? Sorry! Brainfart!
were not because she didnt want to go. I think the one- babysitter she truly had was probably home but unwilling to babysit Caylee for whatever reason (wanting Casey to start acting like a mom, maybe she really wasnt feeling well?), and she thought she could convince Cindy to watch her if she kept at it, or at least could get Caylee to sleep and then her mother might let her go out if Caylee were down for the night.
For me it comes down my feeling that the guys that Casey was with were generally good guys. They werent rich, though Casey may have seen TL as headed in that direction, or at least headed toward a career that would allow her to have fun! I think her lies were no longer doing what she wanted them to making her mother believe that she had a good job and was going to it on whatever night she wanted to do her thing.
Please dont interpret this to mean that I think Cindy was a perfect mother I actually think she was far from it (and George from being the perfect father too!). I just think there are lots of parents that act the way that Cindy and George did, and their children dont grow up to be sociopaths (though Im not entirely sure thats what she is either though I do tend to lean- that way) or murderers.
I think Casey actually really lucked out with the guys she was with. They didnt expect too much from her (like an actual job schedule). They either loved or really liked her daughter. TL didnt seem unhappy with spending time with Caylee, in fact, he seemed to like her quite a lot. Can you really blame him for not wanting a two year old to spend the night in a place where she didnt have a bed, her own changes of clothes, bath toys, special kid dishes every kid has that stuff, and if your home is just not outfitted for a child (and you dont necessarily want it to be), doesnt make them bad guys who were using Casey. Also, lets just pause on the TL wanted boys line. People say all kinds of things when they say someday. I doubt very much TL would have asked his future partner to abort any female fetuses. Its like being a kid and saying I want one boy and one girl, and they should be twins and Im going to name them Mark and Mary! I dont think TL was actually thinking that Casey was listening to him for clues for how she- could be Mrs. RightForever.
Also, I dont think Casey was upset or desperate. Unless youre talking about her not getting what she wanted at the particular moment she wanted it. It wasnt about some deep desire to be accepted and loved (this is just my opinion). It was about her desire to be out of her parents house and to not need them anymore, but not because they put constant pressure on her. It was because their recent- questions were beginning to interfere with her lies, and she really didnt like that. Theyd always sat back and took what she said as gospel. She didnt see it, but stealing from her grandparents was a -major- NONO for what Cindy was willing to put up with. She wasnt willing to just let it go (though she protected her from the law, she wasnt going to act like it never happeneduntil Caylee was gone and she was afraid of losing Casey too).
All the excuses that Casey was giving for not meeting up with was it WW?? Sorry! Brainfart!
For me it comes down my feeling that the guys that Casey was with were generally good guys. They werent rich, though Casey may have seen TL as headed in that direction, or at least headed toward a career that would allow her to have fun! I think her lies were no longer doing what she wanted them to making her mother believe that she had a good job and was going to it on whatever night she wanted to do her thing.
Please dont interpret this to mean that I think Cindy was a perfect mother I actually think she was far from it (and George from being the perfect father too!). I just think there are lots of parents that act the way that Cindy and George did, and their children dont grow up to be sociopaths (though Im not entirely sure thats what she is either though I do tend to lean- that way) or murderers.