But WHY would FCA make such a huge deal of it and be so resentful. Who cares? It's not like a minutes old baby is going to know whether grandma or mommy held her two minutes BEFORE the other did. Come on. What kind of petty chit is that?
She is a narcissist of the highest order, and a manipulator.
First, Casey didn't want Caylee. Caylee was an inconvenience to her and would have ended up abandoned somewhere after birth if no one had caught on to the "tumor" that was growing in KC's belly. No one was supposed to be bonding with Caylee, especially CA, who had for so long been the enabler of KC's sadistic pathology.
Second, the more CA attached to Caylee, which was inevitable and poorly thought out on KC's part (Caylee was going to have to live with the Anthonys), the harder it would be for KC to ultimately get rid of Caylee. Caylee was supposed to be KC's to manipulate and ultimately dispose of as she pleased, and CA created a barrier by actually loving, caring and accounting for Caylee's well-being.
Third, Caylee was a hard hit to Princess Liar's ego. And CA was just'a rubbin it right in KC's face that Caylee was so beloved, and loved for no apparent reason, to KC.
In order for KC to be jealous of their bond, she would actually have to have a sense of emotion herself. That hole is void. The pettiness is actually quite calculated and based solely on KC's evil ambitions, not some over-protective coveting by a new mother. KC was only ever a mother in the biological sense.
KC did not tell her mother that she was pizzed while they were handing Caylee to CA, the revelation that she was upset with CA seemed to rear it's head after Caylee came home to live with them. It was a tool KC used against CA in arguments (manipulation). It may have also been an excuse that KC used when CA queried about KC's lack of enthusiasm for motherhood.
Yes, it's petty to the rest of us, mean spirited and grouchy at best. But for KC, it was a crack in the facade, if you knew what to look for-Her narcissist and her manipulator were at the helm when she said those things.
Makes it hard to see what was going on back then because CA ran behind KC with a tub of spackle, sealing up the cracked facade; George walked right by the cracked facade, and Lee had no real responsibility to interpret any of it.