My frustrations come from the complete and total blackoutof information. I contacted all of the original reporters from the various news stations. All of them responded, saying that they have received no new information.
When Adam first went missing, the administrators of the find Adam Facebook page spoke of a video that was too large to post left by Adam prior to his disappearance. A commentator on the feed offered their assistance in compressing the file so the video could be shared. The page administrator replied, saying we are awaiting guidance from Denver Police before posting this video. Within a day all posts and comments related to the discussion surrounding this video was deleted by the page administrator.
What is frustrating is that so many people have offered their services to help in searches, etc. well, no organized searches, no public release of new information, nothing. I have donated to the go fund me page and have offered assistance in any way I can help. SILENCE.
It is almost seems as though the authorities and the family know much more than they are sharing. As time passes, people are going to stop caring which is very sad for Adam. The family needs to bring forth information soon before interest completely dwindles to nothing. Just my opinion.
RBBM
Thank you so much for all that you are doing, Bsmall.
In the beginning, I was very much set on suicide because of the candle video, and to a degree, the video Adam sent to the friend who is recovering from cancer. Now I am wondering about the video you speak of in your post. It is interesting that the admin said they were waiting for LEs guidance on whether to release it. I wonder if this was the video Adam sent to the friend who had cancer -it was indeed several days before the recording was posted on Vimeo (
https://vimeo.com/249049182)-, or something entirely different. Either way, nothing more has been posted on the FARG FB page about the video that was too large to post. As to the video the friend shared on Vimeo, it hasnt even been mentioned on the FB page; we are aware of its existence only because someone posted it here.
As you said, the way not only those who know Adam personally, but the general public has responded with offers of help has been simply amazing.
For example, several hours ago, someone posted on the FB page they had actually talked to State Representative Herod about Adams case just yesterday. Representative Herod told the poster she wants to help -in fact, she had already heard from others about Adams disappearance- but she needs the familys permission before she can get more involved. So far, there has been no response from the page admin, but I hope that the family reaches out to her:
https://m.facebook.com/findadamronaldgilbertson/?feed_ufi=comments
For me, what has been most perplexing about Adams case is the complete lack of searches (that Im aware of). Perhaps things have been discovered by LE (e.g., nothing has been reported as to if anything appeared amiss when LE first went to Adams apartment, other than that his keys were left on the counter, side door was left unlocked and his car was found there; did they find evidence of someone having been there in the preceding 24 hours or so? Any signs of someone other than Adam driving the car?).
As others have pointed out, I have seen cases where LE is confident the missing person has been harmed by someone, who is involved, and they feel its best to focus their efforts on getting more info about the victims whereabouts from the suspect before conducting searches. In such instances, LE may prefer not to release any info, not even to family, in order to avoid tipping the suspect off. For example, they may already be in possession of Adams phone records (while telling the family otherwise, for investigative purposes), and may have even contacted the people he was in contact with that day. What if they they have also found video footage showing Adam getting into a car after leaving Syntax, and have even confirmed the vehicle belongs to one of the people he was last in contact with? Would they release that type of info to the public?
But then I keep coming back to the candle video. Was it normal for Adam to post something like that on SM? I ask this question because as far as his IG account (which is public) and FB page (not all posts are set to Public, it seems) go, I am not seeing anything like that one. Or was he somewhat drunk that night, even feeling sentimental (but why the blowing out of the candle)?
I dont find someone -especially Adams age- going to multiple bars in one night, even on a weekday, particularly uncommon. What I do find unusual and concerning is the fact he was at Syntax only for 15 minutes, and on the phone almost the entire time.
I am sorry for the lengthy, rambling post. I dont know Adam, dont even live in Colorado, but he seems like a truly exceptional human being, and I hate to think that he is out there somewhere, all alone.