My thoughts exactly. Plus, how much sleep do you think he’d had in the days leading up to those interviews? He had to have been exhausted.
Yes, I think that is a big problem for him. Not sure anyone would believe that he lovingly placed them there so he could drive by and be reminded of his family for years to come. Jmo
I really think the tone is different when discussing such issues in regard to women. We don’t seem to suggest that women be treated respectfully lest they get their feelings hurt and engage in horrible behavior that we then must sympathize with and excuse.Don't want to be pedantic here but basically yes. It's a major theme of the C20th feminist movement, so whilst it would be hard to quantify the academic research I'd hazard a guess that would be in 7 figures, from direct experience.
Yes, you would think so. Yet he is bright eyed, well groomed, and there is no evidence of a frantic husband worried about what has happened to his wife and children. When he looks at the camera and " pleads" for them to come home, or for someone to let them go, he looks like he is just repeating the lines, as if in a commercial or something. It doesn't seem sincere at all. And of course, he wasn't. He didn't need to plead for their safe return because he knew they were in a barrel of oil.My thoughts exactly. Plus, how much sleep do you think he’d had in the days leading up to those interviews? He had to have been exhausted.
Wow! Two more years till the Golden Anniversary! You said it perfectly. What you describe is what I think occurs in most marriages. Some are more competitive than others, but it is our ability to laugh at ourselves and see the humor in things that keeps us going! I couldn't live without it. Or at least I think I would be a miserable person if I did. JmoI would like to bring a new perspective here concerning the claims that SW was abusive toward C.W. I’ve been married 48 years, and we’re still best friends, so I consider myself an expert on the subject of marriage. My husband and I have always been competitive with one another. It’s always been a contest of things like, who can decorate the best Easter egg, or when we’re driving both cars to the same location, who can get there fastest without breaking any laws. It’s fun! We enjoy it. There’s a lot of teasing in our relationship, too. It’s not cruel, it’s funny. We have such a long history, and there are so many inside jokes between us, people looking in from the outside couldn’t begin to understand the complexity and backstories behind each joke. You have to be able to laugh at yourself and one another. Life doesnt always have to be serious. 5 Tips to Learn How to Laugh at Yourself - Exploring your mind
Ahhh, I was going to say something about that too! The only way to avoid them going after your house is if it's in another person's name! Then they can't touch it. That explains that.@MsBetsy , I was going to quote a post you made last night but thread was closed this morning to do so. You mentioned something about the home and bankruptcy. The county assessor lists SW mother as another owner on the house.
Judge Judy would ask, “Does she have any history of mental illness? Has she been treated for irrational behavior in the last two years?” SW does not fit the profile if a mother who kills! Almost all of them have long histories of mental illness. And to all of you who say she emasculated C.W., Watch some more videos. Count how many times she says she has the greatest husband in the world. Watch the love on her face when she gives CeCe that candle lit cupcake for her birthday. Watch CeCe glow with love, and happiness, and joy. No way did SW kill those kids.
I wonder if he was just hoping to make his old life disappear and begin a whole new life. I don't think the tanks signify anything at all except that it was the easiest place to get rid of the bodies quickly. He may have had it picked out in advance. JmoAgreed. It's also important to note that AT was quoted as saying CW mentioned putting the house up for sale. Chris Watts case: Everything we know so far about the alleged murders of his wife, daughters
My speculation is that if CW was looking into moving out of the house within the near future, it's not a stretch to believe that he would also be looking for a job change. Especially considering the AP he was "actively" involved with. If the CW/AP relationship was potentially turning into a serious relationship, it wouldn't be far fetched to believe that eventually CW would need a different place of employment to avoid work problems for being engaged in such a relationship.
Therefore, the tanks wouldn't necessarily be something he would be driving by on a daily basis, or perhaps even ever again. The location could actually have been a part of the thought process to ensure he would never see the tanks again.
JMO.
Since SW was the dominant one, I would think this would have really got to him. He may have been holding all his anger inside. In the end, strangulation would have given him the ultimate feeling of power and control. It is often used in incidents of domestic violence, whether intent to kill is there or not. Jmo
@Tricia
Can each thread have a sticky with the 3 V.I main comments that clarify questions answered and other things?
Or can we at least have a V.I thread where the only thing on there is a copy paste of their responses of pertinent information?
This way we don't have to stroll through 60 pages to see the V.I's input nor keep asking them the same questions over and over again.
Yes, I haven't seen Trinket here lately and I had a question but didn't want to ask if she already answered it. I'm not sure if there is any way around it than to search the thread for it.@Tricia
Can each thread have a sticky with the 3 V.I main comments that clarify questions answered and other things?
Or can we at least have a V.I thread where the only thing on there is a copy paste of their responses of pertinent information?
This way we don't have to stroll through 60 pages to see the V.I's input nor keep asking them the same questions over and over again.
I would like to bring a new perspective here concerning the claims that SW was abusive toward C.W. I’ve been married 48 years, and we’re still best friends, so I consider myself an expert on the subject of marriage. My husband and I have always been competitive with one another. It’s always been a contest of things like, who can decorate the best Easter egg, or when we’re driving both cars to the same location, who can get there fastest without breaking any laws. It’s fun! We enjoy it. There’s a lot of teasing in our relationship, too. It’s not cruel, it’s funny. We have such a long history, and there are so many inside jokes between us, people looking in from the outside couldn’t begin to understand the complexity and backstories behind each joke. You have to be able to laugh at yourself and one another. Life doesnt always have to be serious. 5 Tips to Learn How to Laugh at Yourself - Exploring your mind
I wonder if he was just hoping to make his old life disappear and begin a whole new life. I don't think the tanks signify anything at all except that it was the easiest place to get rid of the bodies quickly. He may have had it picked out in advance. Jmo
Maybe @Bill Carson could chime in? I do not know but under the impression there is no "legal" separation in Colorado, just divorce.I did read the affidavit yesterday morning which must be why the thought was stuck in my mind. After rereading the affidavit this morning, I notice it states CW wanted to "initiate the separation" (**note** not A separation, but THE separation). After Googling marital separation in the state of CO, it appears to me (I am not an attorney) that there is a required separation process/time line of legal separation (obviously differs between states). I now believe that the future of their marriage had been a discussion between CW & SW for sometime prior, and the 6 week trip to NC....MAY... have been a "trial separation" before formally filing for a legal separation. Taking that into consideration may help with some insight to questions folks have (me included) regarding SW's Facebook post stating what a great husband/father CW was, their pregnancy, timing, etc.....
Agree, and that he put them there maybe to try to protect his wife's name? The same wife he cheated on. It will be a real challenge, IMO.Yes, I think that is a big problem for him. Not sure anyone would believe that he lovingly placed them there so he could drive by and be reminded of his family for years to come. Jmo
@Tricia
Can each thread have a sticky with the 3 V.I main comments that clarify questions answered and other things?
Or can we at least have a V.I thread where the only thing on there is a copy paste of their responses of pertinent information?
This way we don't have to stroll through 60 pages to see the V.I's input nor keep asking them the same questions over and over again.
Or if you don't want to but want to change things - go to CODA, start with it. There are so many options...Yup! I think we all feel that way - just get a divorce!
I did for many years. Sometimes it is very subtle. But yes, after awhile it can really beat down your confidence. I would imagine two controlling people would clash. Although CW appeared to internalize things and just " go with the flow" it must have had some effect on him. It would be interesting to here from Trinket concerning that. JmoDominant as in domineering is not an easy life for any 'partner'..Honestly, I don't know how anyone could possibly put up with that.