Zella
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BBM1) Overwhelming evidence of guilt
2) To avoid having ALL of his dirty laundry laid out for the rest of the world.
3) To avoid having ALL of his dirty laundry laid out for his mother, as he sat there and listened.
4) Possibly - to stick it to his mother. I suspect there is a LOT of complication to unpack in their relationship, and that he let Shanann take the heat for being the one who came between them, when the reality of it was that HE wanted to get away from Dearest mother. I know this one sounds like a stretch, but I do think there could have been an aspect of 'you don't control me' that came into play here.
I think there is a lot of truth to this. I think he was being extremely passive-aggressive with both his mom and his wife in making it seem like Shanann was at fault for any distance or problems while at the same time being more than happy to enjoy the distance from his mom. I have a family member who deals with this. Her mother lets her second husband be the bad guy, and all the kids blame him. The conveniently ignore the fact that mom goes along with it--probably because it lets her do her own thing but never seem like the one who is at fault. I suspect CW has a similar personality.