Tigerlily75
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Ok. I am trying to have a mature discussion and so I'm asking questions to better understand others' opinions. I find it very hurtful and upsetting that with every post I am jumped on and being misquoted constantly. I am so saddened by this group and what is being done to people like myself who are just curious and would like to post without constantly being berated and ridiculed. Just because I don't say what CW's mum said about SW was hurtful to her family doesn't mean I don't think it, but I shouldn't have to say it. I am so tired of trying to defend myself when all I've ever done is try and talk about the why of this case and I've never once excused CW's actions. Shanann wasn't perfect, no-one is. I will never comprehend how anyone could do this but it doesn't mean I'm not curious as to why in his mind he thought for 1 sec this was ok.
Shan’ann wasn’t perfect, I’m not perfect, you’re not perfect. Not being perfect has nothing to do with anything, and the answers don’t lie there.
None of us deserve to be murdered. We’ll never understand why he thought it was ok. Why did Scott Peterson think it was ok, why did Chris Coleman or Christian Longo or Gerard Baden-Clay or John List or Neil Entwhistle or John Sharpe.
We’ll never truly understand the why. It’s the million dollar question. What I can say is that the answer isn’t found in their victims, it can only be found within the perpetrators. Their victims were all innocent.
So yes people get upset when people try to find the “why” by pointing out very ordinary, normal human flaws in a victim. As if that will somehow “explain” the unexplainable.
It won’t.