enelram
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I totally agree.Point on! She had spent 6 weeks away from him. Was with him a day or two and off again. She was clearly starting to emotionally separate herself from him, working in to being away from him. His thoughts may have been, "You are not leaving me. And you are not taking my kids. The doll is awful. I think that was a veiled threat.
I think she showed the doll as a forewarning in case something happened. She knew from past experience that he could be a
loose cannon. She was with him for 6+ years. This was not his
first meltdown.
As an old prehistoric codger who's studied and experienced lots
of screwed up men in my lifetime, I've noticed that many of
these guys with personality disorders rarely get past 6-8
years of marriage. That's about the time that wives catch on to
what type character they're really married to.
If they divorce, screwed up guy goes and marries again, and
again. they're serial grooms. They can start the relationship,
with words or charm but they can't maintain it. They don't
have the character or good relationship skills to maintain
a happy, stable relationship. Have seen this over and over.