You're right, of course. A conundrum both ways. A loyal BM would fess up, and admit he authorized her to pick up the package. How loyal is BM?But that puts ol’ BM in a conundrum, doesn’t it? In order for her not to be charged with the theft he has to say he authorized her to pick it up. Otherwise, how would she know it was there?
I suppose he could conceivably say that he assumed SD would have the sense to call in advance or at least knock, explain her purpose, and otherwise respect the new owners' privacy. What will she say in her own defense? How loyal is SD?
This could all be nothing, of course: He ordered a kitchen appliance for his daughter and when it shipped he realized that he forgot to update his address in time. He asked his one trusted friend in town to pick it up without notice because the new owners are on the do not contact list. Pushing the boundaries? Yes. Abusing her friendship by putting her at risk? Yes. Grounds to revoke bond? No. MOO.