They don't think the way we do. According to them, they are smarter, more sly, more cunning, better off the cuff, the most handsome/beautiful, the most charming, the best dressed (well, aside from BM), the brightest light in any room, a huge sense of entitlement, rules don't apply because they are special. People around them are props, shoring up their magnificence, only there to reinforce how wonderful they are.
I was married to one. It's exhausting.
They have no real emotional attachments, it's all facade to make them look good.
Of note: We are assuming BM falls on the narcissism scale. We do not know this for a fact.
ALL MOO