So what I think is odd is that BM used the term "family emergency". If my husband was missing I'd just plain say, hey I had to leave because my husband is missing and I need to speak with the police. The term " family emergency" is just weird. The only thing at that moment to me would be the facts not the way I explained it or hid it. I mean you have someone who you called/saw willing to help you out on a job and you can't be clear with your explanation? I have a small business. I just tell it like it is. A couple weeks back it was my hubby fell and had a brain bleed. I didn't say, hey, we're in the hospital with a "family emergency" I just said it like it was. moo
I do think men are more private with giving out info though. My husband would likely not say his wife was missing. He would say he had something urgent at home.. if he isn't involved, he really could have assumed they would find her before he even got back to town or something. Most people don't jump to the worst case senario off the bat. I do, but my husband definitely would not.