It's heart-wrenching to hear -- or just read, the pleas of a distraught husband or parent when their loved one is suddenly missing.
I can't judge the true feelings of anybody by a 50-second soundbite but I can say that when I tried to compare the husband's plea from last Sunday to missing Madison's daddy's plea for his missing 18-year-old daughter, I couldn't. And it wasn't because of the emotion or lack of or timing. The problem was I couldn't remember what the husband said to or about his wife.
On the other hand, I don't think I'll ever forget the simple but powerful words for the later:
“Just please come home," Bill Bell, Maddie’s dad, said. "I know you’re tough, do what you can. If you have to fight, whatever. Just come home safe and sound, that’s all I want.
“It seems like a nightmare,” Bell continued. “She had to be abducted, because she’s not going to miss my birthday and all the senior events, because that’s what she looked forward to.
"Whoever has her, please drop her off. We won’t say nothing to you as long as she’s home safe and sound.”
I don't know. Maybe the difference is that
I felt Mr. Bell speaking to his child and her captors. too. Did you feel him just reading his words?
Maybe the husband should have let his daughters appeal to their mom and/or her alleged abductors?
Maybe it's not such a good idea to wait a whole week to make an appeal to and for your missing spouse.
Maybe it's a better idea to remain silent if you know that nobody is listening.
Warmth, strength, and comfort to SM's family, friends, and the searchers to bring her home soon.
MOO
Prayer vigil held for Maddie Bell, Ohio teen missing since Sunday