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sorry but I find this sentence really offensive.
Can you explain what a normal relationship looks like please?
I am completely reliant on my spouse financially and am at No RISK of DV.
No more than a friend whom works 40 hours a week and/or earns more than her spouse.
Often the little woman whom is isolated from the outside world actually runs the money. Because she has the time. Most busy working spouses are totally on board with the stay at home partner paying bills and money sorting etc
IMO SM ran his books and kept him a well oiled successful contractor.
We can see by his actions immediately after SM disappearance how sketchy and unprofessional he was with his staff and a dilemma execution.
On top of the no spousal POA is very telling about who pulled what strings and when.
All relationship dynamics are different. Just because she chooses to stay home by no means makes her relationship 'unnormal'.
in my opinion