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Originally Posted by NancyA
I would be very surprised if mom's attorney has not advised her of how much of a double-edged sword the blog and comments could turn out to be. Frankly, if the suspected perp is savvy enough to do half the stuff we're told he could have done he/she is surely savvy enough to preserve the blog as posted on a daily basis. I've said before any half way competent defense attorney would have no problem having large parts if not all of the blog ruled inadmissible as prejudicial or speculative and if allowed a simple "but you didn't think of/remember this until 10 months later when someone planted it in your mind on your blog?" type question would serve to cast doubt on mom's testimony. Also, should the suspected perp(s) have taken legal advice with a view to a defamation suit they could point to entries and comments in the blog itself as evidence in their favour.
Could not agree with you more if I tried! Well said.[I/]
I agree as well, and it concerns me. But, maybe they decided to weigh the pros and cons and the odds of finding/proving the truth on their own (and being content with that knowledge,) and at the same bring awareness to the dangers of stalking is greater than the odds of this going to court. It kinda makes me feel that there isn't an AHA moment in this. If they had the fail safe proof already then they wouldn't need the blog. ?
As far as some of her comment replies, I can see how the questions she is being asked are sparking a memory that she hadn't thought of as she is perusing the notes in front of her. Shoot, I can't remember what I did last week! I'm amazed she's able to recall what she has! Although, I will say, on the day she died M being at the same house as the one she claimed made her feel sick being at 2 weeks before is a Red Flag! Not something I would forget, but I'm glad she brought it up.
Did she write that in her notes for the day it happened, perhaps? We haven't gotten there, yet. Maybe she momentarily forgot that detail since she is obviously flooded with info right now.
Regarding comments being mentioned out of sequence, I do agree it's confusing! 21merc7 mentioned (and I paraphrase) how M doesn't seem terrified anymore in regards to the panic button, monitor, sleeping in her parents room. If she isn't acting terrified, but rather just cautious, is it because she has a pretty good idea who the stalker is? Remember, she drives by a car with the occupants prompting her to look them in the face out of defiance. When did this happen, again? Before or after mom suggests a panic button and monitor?
Is this type of info listed on the timeline?
Thanks.