Silver Alert CT - Jennifer Dulos, 50, New Canaan, 24 May 2019 *ARRESTS* #22

[hivee]

For JD to see FD in her driveway without him having a car, would not likely seem normal to her and I don't envision a breakfast meeting of any type. I think FD entered the garage as she pulled in, and then ambushed her from behind as she got out of her car, careful to cover her mouth so that she would not scream. When the garage doors went down and he had her there alone, he became enraged and exerted his power over her. I think he likely slammed her against the cement floor, letting her know all the while how she brought it on herself. JD didn't have a chance.

Yes, I agree that he is so evil and so full of rage and vengeful that he would've wanted her to know it was him.

 

[hivee]

His quote from dateline "I wish she was here to sort this mess out." My God! What about "I wish she was here because I, and many, love her" or "I wish she was here because our children need her." EVIL. Everything he says points to guilt. He is sick. A monster. He is always the victim in his mind. That he did it is so very obvious. My opinion only.

How sick do you have to be to commit murder then blame the victim for the mess you're in?

 

[303gmf]

Just a small thing, but is there a way for the mods to remove the silver alert tag in the title? Every time I see it, I feel it's being disrespectful to Jennifer.

The definition of a silver alert is:



While it might be factually true that a silver alert was called for her, it seems more than likely in my opinion that this was at FD's instigation, since he appears to be pushing for a Gone Girl scenario and alleging JD had a mental break and ran off abandoning her kids. There is no evidence that JD was not of sound mind at the time of her disappearance. In fact everything points towards foul play.

As is becoming clearer and clearer every day, JD was in fact a loving mother, with enough inner strength and mental fortitude to leave an abusive cheating husband and fight legally for her rights and to protect her kids from a narcissistic, scamming *advertiser censored**hole of a father.

Every time I see that silver alert tag it reminds me of the character assassination this suspect is still perpetrating on a woman who can no longer speak up for herself and who is likely violently murdered by his hands.

Is there a way that we can change this, out of respect for the victim?

Agree wholeheartedly! Seems disrespectful and not applicable to Jennifer

 

[Jmoose]

Is it possible that MT and FD are communicating with each other now?

Not only possible, but probable (MOO)

 

[NWLady]

I wonder if he takes his hair down when he’s on the couch every morning?

Nope, it probably serves as his pillow. LOL

 

[enelram]

Excellent comments.
One downside:
Now I have to go and find video of the clown shoes!

and weren't the clown shoes without socks too?
I think NP visited Albany Ave and stole some shoes out of trash.

 

[DetectiveFoyleWannabe]

Jennifer Dulos disappearance: Fotis Dulos ‘hoping she’s going to show up’

 

[DetectiveFoyleWannabe]

Oops the gif didn’t post but it was basically Homer’s simpson saying “I Like stories” lol. Google Image Result for https://i.imgur.com/OGDo1HN.gif

 

[Jmoose]

“Right now my life is a mess, and I absolutely have no interest and desire to be in this mess.”

Sorry Fotis, that’s called Karma.

He put himself into that mess; he can wallow in it. It’s insane that he is still so focused on how hard this is for him.

 

[hivee]

I keep expecting an animal to pop out of the ponytail!

Not sure why this is the case but I think something is living in that ponytail!

MOO

He is a swamp monster. That's what comes to my mind.

 

[pandaknows]

Gray Hughes did an update on Dulos recent AWs:

Thanks @afitzy , this is a must watch. I haven't finished it yet but derivation/proof of the positioning of the red truck parked on Lapham Road was remarking sleuthing. I need to go to my day job now but I just wanted to put it out there that Hughes has followed many cases and rivals PM but Hughes is on the side of the good. PM should give back his pro bono legal services award. For shame. I can't discount Hughes and Urso: important evidence not yet disclosed by LE was found in NC. PM's job one was to harass EE. FD grilled EE about his workday, his exact route back north.

EE WAS SUPPOSED TO BE CAUGHT RED HANDED AT A TRANSFER STATION ON THE WAY HOME.

The construction bags with some remains were planted in EE's ride that day so that EE could dispose of garbage that did not smell/been bleached and drained. Propped up in a bathtub. EE was instructed to dispose of hardware immediately. EE did not. EE retained evidence for LE. A timeline for EE has not been disclosed by LE. Which transfer station did EE go to on the 24th on his way back to Farmington? FD went to check that night of the 24th. Yep, the dumpster was empty and/or something was left in the FORE metal thingy. Who moved the FORE metal thingy? EE was/is in extreme danger. EE is a hero. Urso knows. Jig is up. IMO.
By the way, @Rosiebones, a friend of mine who also is rich but likes to visit the local transfer station to save on private garbage collection fees - extremely wealthy people with full time jobs often go to transfer stations to dump their own garbage - that is why they are wealthy - well, he believes that the NC Transfer Station floats garbage on a barge. LE found what they were looking for on a barge sitting on Long Island Sound. Not yet incinerated. MOO.

 

[hivee]

This case puts a magnifying glass on Domestic Violence. It is so, so textbook in regards to the marriage/divorce/violence. Regardless of if he's also a Malignant Narcissist, etc, he is also a textbook "Abuser." The minimizing, blaming, denying. The book "Why Does He Do That: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men" would likely read like his biography.
I hope the DV organizations in CT can keep releasing statements on this case. My opinion only.

 

[Jmoose]

Agree with you 100%!!!

Did anyone see any self awareness from FD tonight that just maybe he might have had a role in just about everything we saw on TV tonight? FD seems puzzled as to why this is all happening to HIM?!? The stmt about being happy with his life with MT and the divorce being the part of his life that he was unhappy with and that he just 'wanted it to be over' was to me one of the more interesting statements made and I think its a statement Pattisville will regret. We shall see!

IMO I saw zero responsibility from FD tonight for anything that has befallen him. I didn't find this surprising as its how he rolls but to see the words coming out of the mouth and FD portraying himself even slightly as a victim is simply too much to bear. I wonder how well FD niece knows FD as she seemed to simply parrot the narrative put forth in FD sister letter and frankly didn't add much beyond what we already know IMO.

To hear FD call JD an 'excellent mother' after everything that was said in FC was also the bridge too far IMO. The claims of 'no arguing or fighting' also were contrary to FC testimony. Not sure why NBC included Ronna as a JD 'friend' its not clear she had any recent contact with JD or at least since JD left Farmington (so, over 2 years?).

Watching the answer to the question of 'did you have anything to do with the disappearance of JD' I almost have to wonder if Pattisville defense will be that FD has a twin and that it wasn't FD in the Tacoma or on Albany Ave but his twin. Pure insanity IMO along with the JD is alive!

The last segment with the AW update looked hastily edited IMO so kudos to the State's Atty for filing the latest AW to make sure that not only additional charges were brought against MT and FD but that the narrative for the Dateline episode focused on the present information in the AW and not further victim shaming and the Pattisville narrative based on pure speculation.

I'm sure we will see more from Dateline as further details emerge and I hope that the approach remains balanced and even handed. I do believe that the last segment with the AW was a last min add to the show, so I wonder how the original version would have been ended? I'm always curious! Sorry, not sorry!

MOO

BBM-I caught that, too, and thought the same thing.

 

[Midwestmom2019]

Agree wholeheartedly! Seems disrespectful and not applicable to Jennifer

I think Amber Alert and Silver Alert takes the disappearance out of let’s wait 24 hours and see if they show up on their own.
That way it IMMEDIATELY became an LE search.

 

[Midwestmom2019]

Couple of other things:
1. JDs phone. It was pinging along with her vehicle when it was driven away from her residence at approximately at 10:25 am. When was it turned off? On Lapham Road where her Chevy Suburban was abandoned?
2. What occurred between 10:25 and 11:12 am? Apart from transferring JD body and other items from Chevy to Tacoma?
3. Was anything of forensic value obtained from inside the Suburban?
4. Did FD ever fill the Tacoma up with gas either on May 23 or May 24?

Admittedly I do not know this latest AW as well as I do for June 1st by heart. So if 1-4 are in there it is merely because I missed it. If y’all know please fill in. I dozed during the Dateline special.

Dozed during Dateline special. I didn’t watch it. But I take it you found it boring? Lol.
WS knows more than all of MSM put together. Only LE knows more.

 

[enelram]

just an observation-
if you can go back and re-look at FD's performance on Dateline, watch it again with
no audio. Watch how adept and quick he is to change his facial configuration due to his thoughts and attemp at control of his face.
Split second changes. Mean to pleasant, scared
to confident, facial muscles show tiny twitch
changes, along with his eyes. The eyes go from
intense stare to relaxed I'm OK here, mean and angry to Mr. Nice Guy. Very, very scared to not so scared.
His facial, minute changes are incredible. Almost like a study in emotions if you are
clued in to almost imperceptible acting.
He believes he's an award winning George Clooney, handsome, oh so very handsome and
he thinks he pulled off his most valuable acting
performance so far in this drama.
Still wondering about those red, fat veins in his
eyeballs. High blood pressure? Alcohol excess? Drugs/Cocaine which also causes high
blood pressure. My vote- yes.
Yes, OC caught the alibi also about being in Welles 2 days prior to the crime.
And ol Norm says they can't ID the 2 on Albany. HAH!
still a lyin' runt.

 

[Rosiebones]

I think FD grilled EE about the route he took back north because, he himself disposed of her body on his own way back north and wanted to see if EE's information coincided with his. One more step to implicating EE so he would take the blame.

 

[nina318]

His quote from dateline "I wish she was here to sort this mess out." My God! What about "I wish she was here because I, and many, love her" or "I wish she was here because our children need her." EVIL. Everything he says points to guilt. He is sick. A monster. He is always the victim in his mind. That he did it is so very obvious. My opinion only.

I agree. This emotionless statement and his actions (or non-actions) show his mindset. He's a cold-hearted monster, IMO.

 

[Jmoose]

I too have been back reading about blood in this case today and am still reading.

Truly the main clue I believe we have is the use of the phrase 'crime scene' at Welles in the most recent AW and the fact that there was blood splatter in the garage from the 1st AW.

We have no visual of the garage splatter so to speculate on murder weapon is tough. Was the murder weapon brought to Welles or was it a found object in the garage such as a hammer, trowel, shovel, wrench or pipe? We don't know. We know there was blood found on and in the Suburban. We know that there was a cleanup effort and possible dismemberment at Welles that took nearly 2 hours. We know there was blood evidence found in the Red Tacoma. We know that FD and MT were 'cleaning' at 80 MS. We know there was blood found on various of the items found along Albany. And I believe we know that there was what looked to be blood seen on one of the bags on Albany.

I too am struggling greatly with the knife narrative and its source, the HC. I can see a knife being used in this case but given that so far as I can tell the HC is the source of the knife narrative and the rest of the press articles are 'repostings' of the HC, I'm not sure I'm willing to spend time on the issue until LE talks about it directly.

Pattisville has a vested interest in distraction IMO as they have no alibi/alternative theory after the 'alibi scripts' were discovered and most likely KM was interviewed by LE. So, I wonder if this knife story is just a 'leak' to distract and is no different from the MT taking the lie detector test and being able to give FD an alibi, which we know to be a complete lie? That's the issue with printing or saying things that aren't true, it makes it tough to believe what is being said IMO.

Is the source of the knife narrative a strategic leak by LE to send a message to Pattisville or did it come from Pattisville along with the narrative about the car mat to simply take the focus off of FD for just a little bit and have folks question the investigation and all the 'missing' evidence in the State's case? IDK the answers to any of these questions and there is no way to answer them now so far as I can tell!

IMO so much of the DA reporting has been thinly veiled releases from Pattisville that given the limited amount of time I have to work on this that I can't give this particular angle of the knife and the later found items mentioned in the HC much more time.

There is so much to chew through in the latest AW that I think I'm going to stick with it for awhile.

MOO

I concur re: the knife. Especially the part about LE not having spoken directly about it. The HC made it seem like they have spoken about it, and that’s one of the things that is driving me crazy about their reporting. If all a person did was read that paper, and haven’t been following along here, you’d assume LE thinks it’s the knife that killed her, but they’ve said no such thing yet. Like you, I don’t want to fully invest in that particular item (yet).

 

[oviedo]

For JD to see FD in her driveway without him having a car, would not likely seem normal to her and I don't envision a breakfast meeting of any type. I think FD entered the garage as she pulled in, and then ambushed her from behind as she got out of her car, careful to cover her mouth so that she would not scream. When the garage doors went down and he had her there alone, he became enraged and exerted his power over her. I think he likely slammed her against the cement floor, letting her know all the while how she brought it on herself. JD didn't have a chance.

I have long thought she ran the kids to school in her SUV and left the garage door open (his visit on 5/22 might have been to make her feel safer) - and he hid behind the second vehicle in her garage and when she closed the garage door he blitz attacked her. I think he put her in her SUV and pulled the car out and attempted to clean up during that period of time her vehicle was there. Where he went with the SUV when pulling out of her driveway is my question - did he go right to the Tacoma (was it seen parked there at 10:25-10:40am?) and transfer her body using his black contractor bag? then drive the Tacoma back? did he drive the SUV to the NC property? But if EE was working that would be quite the gamble. I think he drove her in the Tacoma back to Farmington and he was where his phone pinged for 2 hours. All speculation and JMO of course.