afitzy
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@CTGrammy, thanks for solving the JD/JF name dilemma in such a clever and appropriate way. Changing my key code NOW to JFd. The 'd' is PERFECTION as its a perfect reminder of the small stature and small heart of the person involved! Thank you.FD said it to both HF and JFd.
To HF, he said that he would take them to Greece.
With JFd, he said that he would take them to a ski resort where everyone wore ski masks.
I am still Amazed that FD Admitted to saying this to HF, Under Oath. He Clearly does not see anything wrong with that statement. I wonder what NP has to say about that.
IMO, these were Not the only occasions that he made This Threat.
IMO.
I keep coming back to these posts about FD threatening to take the children.
At a very basic level you have to wonder WHO DOES THIS? and WHY?
Obviously FD does this and it was done to terrify JFd on a daily basis and is truly a classic DV ploy used by bullies. But to use the same ploy on FIL is taking this terrorist tactic into new territory IMO. FIL controls the Farber kingdom and everything in it, YET we see FD threatening him via the idea of removing the children.
Just curious if FD 'sister' would think this is 'NICE' as she said outside court that FD is the nicest person she knows.
Well, not sure about 'sister' but I don't think its nice at all and this kind of behaviour puts FD into the bully/THU G realm.
But did FD threaten to take the children because its the only item of value that he had to play with? What might have been going on with FIL to prompt such an ill advised thread?
I do wonder if FD in 2009/2010 when the economy was in rough shape and bank loans not available for speculative building, might have been asking for ever increasing amounts of money and the FIL being a businessman didn't want to do that for his SIL. Was this the source of conflict? I can see the FIL not wanting to be business partners with FD. Did FD take this as a slight and then turned around and issued his threat?
Or did the FD threat about the children originate because FIL saw issues in the marriage that made him feel uncomfortable in terms of his daughter?
MOO