Deceased/Not Found CT - Jennifer Dulos, 50, New Canaan, 24 May 2019 *ARRESTS* #43

[HopeForTheBest]

I'm not sure why he would have allowed anyone to write his suicide note other than him. It was his last chance to have the final word.

Imo

Haven’t looked but I know from experience that it’s harder to write in a vehicle than at a table or somewhere. The angles are always off. Also, there's sometimes a difference in our handwriting when we’re relaxed vs. when we’re angry and stressed. And then there’s his love of The Art of War. MOO.

 

[GoodWins1]

I would think at some point NP's colleagues would start calling him out for his shenanigans. This just seems so beyond the pale to me.

He appears to hate (or at least not give a crap about) GF and Fd's children as much as Fd did.

How could Fd's family "mourn" him in the house he took his life in?

I wish GF would have the utilities turned off and the locks changed. Hopefully the photos taken during the execution of the search warrant can be used to prove any damage that may result from the "mourning period" were caused by the "mourners".

Yes, GF needs to hire PM to look after the property, change the locks, and put up cameras. The squatters will squat as long as they have access. Shameless bunch!

 

[HopeForTheBest]

You mean absolute and total denial?

Yep, sounds like Fd IMO.

Uncooperative to his last dying breath.

MOO

And the truly ridiculous part? Given all the documented lies, the things he and MT and KM are flat-out known to have done, he thinks that we should take his word for it that he and they are innocent? Arrogance to the last. MOO.

 

[Herat]

Why didn't AC write a Bank of America check to Famous PI and have Famous PI write a personal check to the court? Famous PI balked at something and he is no dummy. Something AC did regarding the bail money put her on the receiving end of laundered funds that the Feds were tailing and Famous PI was NOT going to touch that with his personal bank account.

Yes, something along those lines would help explain the vicious sarcasm in his comment to Anna Curry in his suicide note.

"I'm so thankful for what you did " just drips with ugly sarcasm to me.

It really says "you didn't do ENOUGH to FIX THINGS and now you will have to pay be being not only the last person who sees me alive, but the first person to see me dead "

 

[acutename]

I would guess that Ms. Curry was in a business relationship where she was provided funds from an unknown source to funnel cash to Fd. I can't tell if it was his money or someone else's money but she was out on a limb so far with an agreement to pay 18k a month for a year and a quarter. It makes no sense that she would come into the picture in October and start forking over her own cash.

sounds like an annuity to me, IMO

 

[HopeForTheBest]

Why would his Greek relatives get whatever he actually owned—and that certainly is not the house? Why wouldn’t the kids get anything there might be? Why would anyone want to take one more thing from those kids? MOO.

 

[MsJosie]

You mean absolute and total denial?

Yep, sounds like Fd IMO.

Uncooperative to his last dying breath.

MOO

why the fake alibis
why cleaning
why dumping 30 or so bags with Jennifer’s bloody clothes
why fake license plates
why lying when asked questions
why testing the limits of the ankle monitor
why all the false info, time lines, etc.

why if you were innocent, if your friends were innocent did you do all the above WHYS....

and why commit suicide if you were innocent, you may have been able to get your children back that you loved (not IMOO)

and WHY if you had proof now your lawyers has proof NO ONE is coming forth with the evidence to prove any of this....all your lawyers do especially NP is talk in circles

they are all in denial....reality eludes them

night all

 

[esayer]

Very odd to me that the suicide note is still very self serving. All about poor Fotis. As I read it, it’s NPs voice I’m hearing, like it was dictated by NP. Maybe just a coincidence, “two peas in a pod”.

He hardly mentions the children and certainly not even by name. These are your children! If this is your last chance to say goodbye, you darn well are going to address each one individually, aren’t you? Anyways, good riddance!

MOO

Guaranteed he blamed every single thing wrong with their marriage on poor JD. Imagine being married to that F@#$%^!!!

 

[Herat]

Drama Queen. Have to cut my head off to end this tragedy. Pathetic man.
Oh ho. Maybe this is the clue to dismemberment. No problem cutting his head off to end everything. Maybe he cut JFD head off to end her life. To end everything she represented.

This is a horrible Freudian slip of his. Horrible

I dont even want to say what I'm thinking.

 

[Hope4More]

Far more of an apology to Anna than to his children

What's the surprise there? A man who loves his children doesn't kill their mother, keep her dead body from ever being found, and feel transparently indifferent to the ongoing trauma he's inflicting upon his own children.

Imo the chief and likely only reason he addressed Anna was because she was about to find out he had lied to her and had caused her to lose a great deal of $$.

He had no conscience, and a history of destroying others for his own gain. Why would such a person apologize to a target he'd scammed and used? Because he had no intention of dying and was trying to manipulate her into not coming after him at minimum, or at maximum, was hoping she'd keep on bailing him out, for fear he'd off himself if she didn't.

 

[MsBetsy]

I think there is room for a great deal of doubt he intended to kill himself, actually, precisely because he was a narcissist.

I brought up his lack of remorse to dismiss it as a possibility for intent to kill himself, not because I thought he was remotely capable of feeling it. I do agree with you that losing control & power would have been intolerable to him. But...imo, as a narcissist he wouldn't be likely to concede that he had or was about to lose either. After all, even after being charged with first degree murder, he still was able to convince his new GF to commit hundreds of thousands of dollars to keep his sorry arse out of jail. And even after his ex & besty felonious atty had also been charged, neither had flipped.

As far as what he might have known about how long it would take to die or do irreversible brain damage by CO2 poisoning. Have you ever googled those questions? I have, and the consensus of everything I read was that killing oneself that way nowadays is rather difficult actually, and isn't even guaranteed to succeed.

I'd really love to know, if LE makes the effort, if he googled that question for himself. If he did, for me that's all the more reason to believe he intended to stage a faux suicide attempt but miscalculated.

(One part of my conclusion is based on the assumption that he learned his bond might be revoked on the afternoon/evening the day before, and had all night and early AM to scheme his way out of being jailed immediately. And to make it difficult if not impossible for his new GF to question his poor innocent victimized self about her loss of $$.

Yes, I googled it right after he was discovered because I wanted to know what his chances were.

According to Harvard Health Publishing; Harvard Medical School, "Death results from only a few minutes of exposure in higher concentrations or an hour for low levels."

For people with mild to moderate carbon monoxide poisoning, one in five can have neurological problems, ranging from mild personality changes to severe intellectual impairment, blindness and deafness.

The article is titled "Carbon Monoxide Poisoning." It was published in January 2019.

That is what convinced me that he was determined to kill himself, rather than take the risk of surviving and living for the rest of his life with potential brain damage or neurological problems.

Imo

 

[Herat]

I've read that LE expects a suicide note to contain lots of DNA as the writer is under great stress and perspiring which also makes for some clear fingerprints.

This one should get quite a thorough examination.

I notice it's done on a multi-page notebook or pad of paper.

Are there pages torn out of the pad as if they were earlier versions?

It looks like he was really pressing hard on the paper. Even in the small photo I can see how deeply the writing is on the paper surface. Are there other impressions of prior versions left in the underlying pages?

 

[HopeForTheBest]

It’s not at all odd to me that the note was so self-serving. That’s exactly the FD he’s shown the world himself—as in the early interview where he talked about how HE was the one having the hardest time. Right. MOO.

 

[acutename]

Possible deal in the works?

D0n't want him in court so soon after Fd death as perhaps State is reevaluating its strategy?

Lots of options IMO.

MOO

it isn't possible that KM and FD did something like buy life insurance or do wills or arrange some other financial benefits that would go to them with their wives deaths and then plan something lethal for them? they would not be so obvious as to do something financial in tandem, would they?

 

[MemPat]

it isn't possible that KM and FD did something like buy life insurance or do wills or arrange some other financial benefits that would go to them with their wives deaths and then plan something lethal for them? they would not be so obvious as to do something financial in tandem, would they?

This is Frick and Frack we're talking about. Would anything surprise us?

 

[Tink56]

In my last post I stated if FD did leave a note he would try to absolve MT and KM. I’ve been immersed in this case 24/7 since the beginning because I live in town. I know people who were friends with FD and MT. Instead of protecting MT and KM by stating he did it 100% without them knowing he proclaimed his innocence and then stated MT and KM didn’t have anything to do with it.

If in the FD note said he killed JD and MT/KM had no knowledge of what they were doing under FD command I think it would help them immensely.

Instead he says they are all innocent which will not help anyone.

Typical FD.

He just wasn’t sure his choice of suicide would work. You can conclude that with the first line of his note. But honestly with his personality he would NEVER admit to doing anything harmful to an ant.

It’s amazing and scary how some people can live with a conscious like that.

Unfortunately I think MT is similar. I hold onto hope KM may come to his senses. I honestly know the least about him, obviously what I’ve read hasn’t been good, but if he gets substance abuse help and with being in jail, maybe he can minimize his demons and be a somewhat good human.

RIP Jennifer. I will never stop looking for you. May you and your family have peace. You did everything you could to protect your kids and your family. I hope you knew how wonderful you were. You will never be forgotten.

The only people he said he loved were his children. He didn't give his love to his family, his friends, or anyone who stood by him. His soul and heart seemed to have died before his body. His suicide note read more like a business letter....and, that's very sad.

And, the message about life, "that one can only take so much," defies the message he said he was teaching his children...to work hard, to reach your goals, to never quit. I think Rena mentioned this in her letter about "Is it relevant":
Is it relevant to know that... And that the constant effort to attain high goals has shaped his character, sense of fairness and can-do approach to life? Do you care to know that all he has wanted to do for his children is set a standard of fair play and constant effort in an effort to attain goals? To show to them that without hard work nothing is attainable? (July 1, 2019)

I think he wrote the note before he gave up hope on the bond....he even took the last phone call about the bond. NP probably told him that another night or so in jail might be necessary, but don't worry. However, Fd wasn't going to be confined anymore. NP didn't "hear" his client's angst and didn't read the situation clearly. NP and Fd were aware, especially after the Danbury Savings Bank took Sturbridge into receivership on Monday, that the bond was going to be called into question. NP's many well placed whispers must have hinted to him that the State Insurance regulators were questioning the bond. If anyone let Fd "down" it was NP.

I agree that Fd's note does nothing to help AT, MT, or KM....I hope the state proceeds with the charges against them. Pattis will scream that the state isn't sharing the evidence with him or Fd's family....He won't have anything to do with the defense of these people, at least at this time. However, he does seem to be injecting himself in much of the litigation including the civil suit, and the last motion submitted by Habib sounds like NP histrionics, IMO.

Fd's escape has left a legal mess for others to clean up....it will be adventure in motions and counter motions and deals before it's over...sigh. IMO...MOO

 

[glassheater]

The only thing that surprises me is reports his first divorce ended amicably and quickly. I know he married JD really quickly after it was final so he may of played nice to speed it up. His ex may of realized who he truly was and also wanted it to be over and didn’t argue. But it still surprises me...

 

[MassGuy]

The only thing that surprises me is reports his first divorce ended amicably and quickly. I know he married JD really quickly after it was final so he may of played nice to speed it up. His ex may of realized who he truly was and also wanted it to be over and didn’t argue. But it still surprises me...

His divorce from Jennifer was under very different circumstances though:

Years of marriage, kids, and a very complicated financial situation, to include failing businesses and loans from Jennifer’s father.

There was likely a lot more to fight over there.

 

[Hope4More]

Yes, I googled it right after he was discovered because I wanted to know what his chances were.

According to Harvard Health Publishing; Harvard Medical School, "Death results from only a few minutes of exposure in higher concentrations or an hour for low levels."

For people with mild to moderate carbon monoxide poisoning, one in five can have neurological problems, ranging from mild personality changes to severe intellectual impairment, blindness and deafness.

The article is titled "Carbon Monoxide Poisoning." It was published in January 2019.

That is what convinced me that he was determined to kill himself, rather than take the risk of surviving and living for the rest of his life with potential brain damage or neurological problems.

Imo

This is one of those agree to disagree things. Not enough verifiable info is known about the precise timeline of that AM to know when he went to the garage & hooked up the pipe etc. Behind that unknown, it is probably forever unknowable what he did when he was in the car. Could have had the garage door and car windows open for most of the time his GF was out shopping. Could have not even hooked anything up until a time he calculated was a safe to appear harmed time, but no where near fatally so time.

Whether or not one believes he actually intended to kill himself may come down to one's own general understanding & beliefs about how narcissists act. For me, especially given his "suicide note," everything he did suggests manipulation, not suicidal intent. JMO.

 

[CTGrammy]

They are now a family in mourning, and their safe haven to mourn is Mr. Dulos’ home at 4 Jefferson Crossing, Farmington, Connecticut. As they put his final affairs in order and prepare to honor his memory, his home is their safe haven. The Court should not, and cannot in the name of basic human decency, allow the Plaintiff to make a self-aggrandizing grab at Mr. Dulos’ home through a person who has proven to be hostile and contentious with Mr. Dulos at the expense of his grieving family, who are already bearing the added pressure of intense public and media scrutiny.
During his life, Mr. Dulos zealously preserved his property for his own interests, and his estate intends to do the same.

http://civilinquiry.jud.ct.gov/DocumentInquiry/DocumentInquiry.aspx?DocumentNo=18627953

There was NO Exploitation.

JFd's Father and Mother put up Cash Money as a Guarantee for the Mortgage on 4JC when Fd and JFd chose it as their family home.

In the Fall of 2018, Fd called Dr.GF to say that he was Intentionally Defaulting on the Loan, since he Knew that Mellon Financial would then look to Dr.GF for payment.

Mellon Financial looked to Dr.GF for payment instead of Foreclosure due to the Cash Money Guarantee she and HF provided.

One year later, Dr.GF was still paying the 4JC Mortgage and decided to be more Fiscally Responsible and Bought the Mortgage that She was paying. Allowing Fd to live in the home RENT/MORTGAGE FREE for OVER a YEAR.

Dr.GF did Not just 'pay off' the Mortgage and therefore the home was paid in full.

She is Not 'going after' anything.

Instead, Dr.GF 'Bought' the Mortgage itself with ALL Legal Rights attached to the Mortgage.

Dr.GF Legally OWNS the MORTGAGE Loan on 4JC as if she were a Bank or Mortgage Lender.

When Dr.GF Bought the Mortgage, ALL Legal Rights of Foreclosure were Assigned to Her.

What Mortgage Lender does anyone Know that Consider's a Mortgage to be 'Paid in Full' when the Mortgagee dies?

I am sure that Dr.GF is more than willing to Sell the Home/Mortgage to Whomever is willing to buy it, including Fd's Greek family.

This is Not a Grandmother being spiteful. With 4JC, she is the Legal BANK Owner of the Mortgage.

Therefore the Mortgage LOAN is Still OWED and she is Legally Entitled to seeking payment of said Mortgage LOAN.

What is she supposed to do? Just hand a multi million dollar home over to whomever?

This Foreclosure began last fall. This did Not start when Fd decided to take his life.

The Owner of the 4JC Mortgage chose to protect the Investment by Filing for a Receivership of the Property to PROTECT the Property so that the Value of the Property remains.

This is Nothing New. Banks and Mortgage Lenders Do this All The Time. It is their Job to Protect the properties that they fund.

For Example: FORE Property at 61 Sturbridge Hill in New Canaan, CT. Just Last Week - The Mortgage Lender of this property Also Filed for Receivership to Protect the Investment so that the Value of the Property remains while on the Market, until Sold.

Dr.GF has Absolutely Nothing to do with the Bank that Owns the 61SH Mortgage. Should this Mortgage Company just GIVE the home to the Greek Relatives, just because Fd passed away?

No. That would be silly, Right?

So, Why is the Mortgage Company of 4JC any different?

Because the Legal Mortgage Company is Dr.GF?

Dr.GF is Protecting the Farber Inheritance for her Grandchildren.

IF the Mortgage Company of Dr.GF were to just hand 4JC over to the Greek Relatives, then her Grandchildren will be out Millions of Dollars of THEIR Inheritance.

I can Guarantee that the Mortgage Lenders of the other FORE Properties will Also be filing their Own Receivership documents.

It is STANDARD Practice for ALL Mortgage Lenders. Why should it be any different just because the 4JC Mortgage Lender has the last name of Farber?

IMO.